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April 29th, 2013, 09:05 AM
LadybugBanana's Avatar Veteran
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Just hang in there! When I had to tell my ex that I was pregnant with my DD, it was the scariest thing I have ever done. We tried to make it work (even though I shouldn't have bc he was abusive, mentally and physically) but eventually we drifted. A baby is a miracle, but it is not "glue" to keep a relationship together. From my experience, if the relationship isn't strong then a baby will show you just how weak it is

Sorry to be so negative, as that is my experience with the situation. He could be the exception that just needs that boost to commit

Do you mind me asking why you are afraid to tell him? Fear he will leave or get upset?
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April 29th, 2013, 10:23 AM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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Good luck honey
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April 29th, 2013, 11:30 AM
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You said you've had a prior pg by him and he wasnt supportive so you already know what ur dealing with. It's unfortunate, but thats the man you chose. Time to put your big girl panties and get prepared for Dec with or without him. I'm only saying this as a woman that has a shaky relationship as well. I want him there but if he isn't I'll still have a LO coming in Dec....

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April 29th, 2013, 11:52 AM
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Hoping he will step up & do the right thing. Either way, you can do this!

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April 29th, 2013, 11:57 AM
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(((hugs))) GL and I hope for the best possible outcome in this situation!
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April 29th, 2013, 12:40 PM
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Good luck!

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April 29th, 2013, 01:52 PM
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Good luck!
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April 29th, 2013, 03:46 PM
*~ Joni ~*'s Avatar Jordana Jacoby & Jamason
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Maybe I would wait til 12 weeks and pretend I had no idea and just found out. That way he can't pressure you to abort or anything. Isn't 12 weeks too late? Then like it or not here comes baby and neither of you have a choice in the matter.
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April 29th, 2013, 04:04 PM
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