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August 14th, 2018, 06:34 PM
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So my boyfriend and i got pregnant the first month we started dating. I am now 7 months and things have been really hard for us. When I first met him, he just got out a divorce. Anyway we have been trying to make it work, we have had our ups and downs but overall we love each other and we are excited for our son. He is 36 I am 26. Financially, we are not doing good at all. He is in real estate and he is not getting any sales. I went to school for esthetics and never got my degree. He has some money saved and we are living off of that right now and he waits tables on the side. Anyway I brought up marriage to him the other day and he said Iím trying to pressure him into marrying me. But I just want to have solid commitment if I am having a baby. He says he loves me and the baby more than anything in this world and when the time comes we will but not anytime soon. And he brings up my bad credit and always talks about how hurt he got from the last divorce. I feel like those are excuses. If he really loved me none of that should matter and Iím carrying his child for god sakes! He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, so why is he making up excuses to fully commit to me? I understand people go through divorces and itís a horrible thing, but he is the one who wanted me to keep the baby and I feel like he needs to put that all behind. It makes me sad and wanting to leave knowing the fact he doesnít want to commit to me anytime soon. My family agrees with me. What do you think about this and what should I do?
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