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November 15th, 2011, 07:43 PM
Twin Mama
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I am feeling so bummed. My body failed to O.

It was primed, my CM showed signs, I had what I thought was O pain, but my temps are not rising and my fertile CM is going away. I had one day where I woke up, checked my CM and wow it was 1 inch stretchy and slippery and TMI: a penny size glob of it that wasn't stretchy but VERY slippery came out too. It stayed in a glob too, so weird! I was SURE that I was going to O.

I know I shouldn't get so bummed, it's CD19 fresh of BCP but I was so hopeful. My body was showing signs and now I'm back to being scared to death I'm not going to O... ever... and can't get pregnant... ever.

I want to cry big crocodile tears over this...

DH thinks I am insane and that REALLY helps make me feel awesome... NOT!
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November 15th, 2011, 10:20 PM
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Aww. Give yourself some time. Isn't this your first cycle being off BCPs? It's not worth getting all worked up over something that may not be a problem. Don't worry about it yet, just keep up the good work charting!!
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November 15th, 2011, 11:53 PM
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i didn't O my first cycle off bcp either, and it was a really short cycle (22 days) but my second cycle I did O pretty much like an average person.
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November 16th, 2011, 08:20 AM
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Aww I totally here ya! I am on CD84 today and I am still not 100 percent sure that I O'ed. My body has now failed to O twice after coming off the pill. I think sometimes it just takes a while. Be patient with yourself. If you don't have anything happen within three months, then you might want to go in a see a doctor. I am almost ready to make an appt myself. Grrr....

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November 16th, 2011, 09:16 AM
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Be patient with yourself. Your body is working very hard to sort itself out again.
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November 16th, 2011, 09:42 PM
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I have a friend who does this to me every time she TTC, she texts me the first cycle she's trying saying she'll never O, and is pregnant by the next month (she's about to have baby number 4). I hope you'll be like her.

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November 17th, 2011, 01:50 PM
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Thanks gals. I don't know, I am trying really hard to just ignore what my body is not doing an not worry. All I can do is try to be diligent charting and my body wont lie to me. It felt good to type that all out though, I was so depressed. Work is stressing me out like crazy so maybe its best to focus on that instead.
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