Log In Sign Up

Secretly (not really) NTNP

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to [email protected].

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Trying to Conceive While Breastfeeding LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
July 31st, 2009, 11:06 PM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 9,490
Ok..so...dh started out by what we call "playing with fire" by not pulling out like normal....To me...playing with fire and taking a chance (btw we are extremely easy to get pg generally)....is staying in once maybe twice and "wishing for the best" (which is my opinion ends with a baby btw lol)....

Anyway....he's stayed in 3 or 4 times now....I think that goes in the NTNP boat, dont you? LOL....He says "I'm experimenting"....I say "that's a risky experiment dont you think"....he laughs....so not sure it'll continue....but I think he's secretly wanting another? He's said he wouldn't mind it...I guess he likes the thought of unexpected blessings...maybe if it's more of an oops he can pretend we didn't try and family will not think we are crazy just irresposible. LOL...

Anyway...Had to laugh

Oh and a Q....how long after conception do you wait to take a test. I have NO idea if/when ovulation would have been...since we (obviously) are still BFing and I've not had an AF...I dont know if I even ovulated at all....so I'd just be using the date we DTD....how long would you wait to test?
Momma to Emma, Elzie, Gretchen, Olive, and Rogan

We aren't to give a baby milk, berries, or peanut butter. We are to introduce new foods one at a time. But it's OK to inject several viruses, bacteria, aluminum, formaldehyde, phenoxyethanol, animal serum, mercury, squalene and more into an 8 week old? I don't think so.
In order to be healthy it is an unfortunate fact that people must be allowed the opportunity to be ill. I trust my body and those of my children to work correctly against the relatively benign diseases they vax for, and do not trust the ingredients in the vaccinations.
Our choice to not vax isn't based in ignorance, poverty, conspiracy theory and rumor. It's research, common sense, fact and evidence based..something the medical community has largely forgot about.
Reply With Quote
August 2nd, 2009, 09:32 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Bay Area CA
Posts: 19,074
DH and I were DTD daily/every other day, so I just tested randomly because I had a "feeling". Otherwise, maybe 2 weeks after DTD? And if negative maybe test the 3rd week just to be sure.

Sounds like your DH is secretly wanting another one!

Reply With Quote
August 3rd, 2009, 10:08 AM
Posts: n/a
We haven't been preventing since our son was born 6 1/2 months ago and I don't have AF back either. I've tested every 6 weeks or so just to be sure. If I were you I'd test 2 weeks after DTD.
Reply With Quote
August 3rd, 2009, 08:34 PM
KatieHeitman's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Hutchinson, MN
Posts: 6,777
Send a message via Yahoo to KatieHeitman Send a message via Skype™ to KatieHeitman
2 weeks is about right. I got my first BFP after 11 days. But it was so faint you could hardly see it. If you think you're pregnant and don't get a positive at 2 weeks then definitely at 3 weeks you should see one.
Reply With Quote

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:52 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0