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July 21st, 2009, 08:02 AM
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Princeton, IL
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So this month my husband and I were going to start going with the flow.... and he decided to tell me now... after the books and the monitors and the cycle tracking that he doesn't want a 4th baby. Says he can't bring himself to be ok with it. Says he doesn't want to change diapers and get up at night with a crying baby. I am obviously sad because my husband did tell me 2 months ago that he had been thinking about it and is OK with having another baby, that I deserve this because he knows he gets everything he wants and I never ask or get myself anything...and now he's changing his mind. And he isn't being supportive or kind about my feelings at all. Good luck to everyone. Im sure I will be lurking around.
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July 25th, 2009, 04:55 PM
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Sorry that just sucks.

Kristina SAHM of Janessa 16, Xandria 14, Thayer 13, Alorah 10, Nathalia 9, Malayna 7, Sawyer 5, Ryder 3, Kristiana 1 and edd Jan 24

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July 25th, 2009, 07:32 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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July 25th, 2009, 09:31 PM
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HUGS!!!! Pray....maybe the timing isn't right but pray...God could be working on his heart....or at least pray that he will be working on it. That is what I do with my dh and our children situation....HUGS
Momma to Emma, Elzie, Gretchen, Olive, and Rogan

We aren't to give a baby milk, berries, or peanut butter. We are to introduce new foods one at a time. But it's OK to inject several viruses, bacteria, aluminum, formaldehyde, phenoxyethanol, animal serum, mercury, squalene and more into an 8 week old? I don't think so.
In order to be healthy it is an unfortunate fact that people must be allowed the opportunity to be ill. I trust my body and those of my children to work correctly against the relatively benign diseases they vax for, and do not trust the ingredients in the vaccinations.
Our choice to not vax isn't based in ignorance, poverty, conspiracy theory and rumor. It's research, common sense, fact and evidence based..something the medical community has largely forgot about.
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