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May 31st, 2006, 02:22 AM
Sarah-Jean's Avatar Veteran
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OK, my last few pregnancies I've had symptoms really early, like 3DPO I think was the earliest... So now I'm seriousely obsessing!

I keep chopping and changing my mind as to whether I WANT to be pregnant again already, especially as there are a number of health concerns which will lead me to be on crutches at best, wheelchair at worst and that's just ONE of the likely problems I'll suffer.

Anyway, the last two nights I've had really, REALLY vivid dreams. Nothing like my normal dreams are where I now I'm dreaming - it felt like I was trapped in these ones and I couldn't tell if I was really asleep or awake. Not scary at all, just odd for me. I'm having some pretty bad cramps today too which I'm not happy about as I hate having a sore stomach. And also I'm really gassy. The only time I get gas like this is during pregnancy - but surely it's too early right for all this???!!!

So yeah, majorely obsessing right now! I just want to know now, now, now!!!!!

I'm scared though cos I don't know what or how I'll tell people. My Mum will be upset and disappointed - she's convinced the next time I get pregnant I'll end up in a wheelchair if not dead. Yeah - dramatic!!! LMAO Then there's MIL... My FIL passed away a few weeks ago and it'll be extra hurt for her knowing that he'll never see the new baby... He was there at Ashtons birth and was the first to hold Ashton after me - even DH didn't get a hold until FIL had finished.

How do you mums with more then 4 cope with telling people???? Are they normally supportive or do they really lay into you?


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Tristan (Apr 01), Jaeven (Mar 02)
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May 31st, 2006, 06:50 AM
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I didn't even tell dh's family last time. I let my kids tell them. I have gotten thicker skin with it lately. I make jokes all the time that we'll have 15 kids. I am getting to where I just don't care what anyone thinks about it anymore.


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May 31st, 2006, 08:45 AM
tootienkyle's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I agree...I don't care either. I had a tubal reversal in March of this year and was really worried about what people were going to think..but not anymore. It is our lives. They have a life where they get to choose what they do and how many kids they want to have, and we don't /didn't butt into theirs. We have the right to have as many kids as we want to! Don't fear telling people. You stay strong and proud and set in your mind that you are happy with your decisions and then nothing they say will bother you. It will be them looking silly for thinking/believing the way they do!
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