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March 13th, 2009, 06:20 PM
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Yesterday I had my first D&C, I was 9 weeks pregnant. The baby had stoped growing and there was no heartbeat, I wans't passing it for some reason. This was my 3rd miscarriage! I was so excited for this last one, I jsut knew that everything would be okay. All my miscarriages had been 6 weeks or earlier so i figured once I got passed 7 weeks I was in the clear. It never occured to me that I could be carrying a dead baby with NO signs or symptoms of miscarriage. This is just so hard...We are going to wait until May to try again and I am not looking forward to all the nerve racking tests again.

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March 13th, 2009, 06:47 PM
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I am so sorry about your losses. Two of mine happened that way. My body didn't clue me in on the loss until I saw it on u/s. It happens that way a lot more than people think. Good luck with testing and I hope you get some answers.
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March 13th, 2009, 06:52 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses.

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March 13th, 2009, 08:04 PM
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HUGS sweetie, I'm so sorry for your loss(es).

I've had one surgical and one Natural loss.. and I much preferred natural... HUGS
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March 14th, 2009, 03:23 PM
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Welcome and Hugs!!! I am so sorry for your losses. Two of my m/c's I had a D&C and two I had natural m/c's. The two D&C's I did not know that I baby did not have a hb until the u/s showed it.

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March 15th, 2009, 09:02 PM
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aw I'm sorry for your loss ((Hugs))

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March 17th, 2009, 11:06 AM
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(((HUGS))) I am sorry for your losses.

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March 17th, 2009, 04:11 PM
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Sorry for your losses. We just found out yesterday my RE doesn't want us to try again until mid April May... Hopefully we can be in the same DDC again and have sticky beans this time!

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March 18th, 2009, 07:26 AM
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I am so sorry to hear about your losses.

I had one D&C as well, for my 3rd loss. They aren't easy at all are they. I hope you get some answers soon!

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March 18th, 2009, 11:18 AM
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My first two m/c were natural and my next two were D&C. With my third loss, I thought we were in the clear as well and didn't find out I m/c until the 12 week appointment. The baby had died at 9 1/2 weeks. It was devastating. I too thought we had made it through the harder times, only to find out we lost our baby again. I hope you are doing ok.

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March 19th, 2009, 08:41 AM
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same thing happened to me, but i had a d&c with my second m/c so i didn't want to have another. so i opted for a natural m/c. it took my body almost three additional weeks to recognize something was wrong and m/c. i was about 10 weeks. it was horrible to wait. I'm so very sorry for your losses!!! big big HUGS!!

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