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March 14th, 2009, 01:01 AM
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Hello! I am new on this forum. My husband and I have a 12 month old lil girl. Well in August I found out we were expecting. I was almost 5 weeks along well about 3 days before I found out I was pregnant, I started spotting. We waited till that Monday to go to the doctor. They did a blood test and they said I was pregnant! I was nervous and excited at the same. Well that same day I started to pass clots so we went to the hospital. The doctors told us we loss the baby. I was so heartbroken. Well then we had a chemical pregnancy 3 weeks later. And in end of Sept. and beginning of Oct we were expecting again but this time I was right at 6 weeks along when I lost it. This latest one killed me the most and honestly I am not over it at all. This past week has been a trying week. I am a a lil late on my period and I am so emotional. I am so scared that I could be preg and loose this one also. But thank you so much for listening.... I really needed to vent and stuff. I can only do so much venting to my husband but thank you!

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March 14th, 2009, 07:30 AM
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First, let me say welcome to RPL. I'm sorry for your losses, but glad you found us.

What you are describing is normal. I'm not sure that fear will ever go away for me. Please feel free to vent/cry/and even laugh here with us when you need.

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March 14th, 2009, 07:32 AM
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HUGS and welcome sweetie. I'm sorry for your losses.

Feeling stressed and worried about another loss is completely normal. HUGS, and let us know what happens this time!
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March 14th, 2009, 03:20 PM
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Welcome!!! I am so sorry for your losses. The emotions that you are talking about are all normal. All of us here have been in your position....feel free to post away!!
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March 15th, 2009, 09:08 PM
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welcome to RPL - I am sorry that you have reason to be here, but glad you've found us all the same!

I'm Emma (25) & I have one daughter - Gaby (2) & have experienced 4 1st trimester losses

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March 17th, 2009, 11:11 AM
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(((HUGS))) I am so sorry for your losses. Having one loss is hard enough but having multi losses so close to eachother really brings on an overload of emotions! Please vent away.

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March 18th, 2009, 08:06 PM
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I am so sorry for you losses. My name is Nicole and I've had 4 m/c's. I understand the emotions are you feeling. My third loss emotionally put me over the edge. It was really difficult to accept and realize it was happening again. I had so many feelings of anger, sadness, grief, rage, anxiety, insecurity. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.

This site was a life saver for me. It helped me to understand my feelings were completely normal. And I could come and vent, ask questions, and cry any time I needed, because every person here knows exactly what I was feeling.

We are here for you.

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March 19th, 2009, 08:38 AM
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welcome and i too, am sorry for your losses. i have had three myself, carrying to 10 weeks. it's so horrible. i started losing faith in God, but i've decided to keep the faith and pray that there is something very wonderful waiting for me at the end of this journey!! HUGS to you and welcome again!!

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