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March 27th, 2010, 08:43 PM
Libby22's Avatar Super Moderator
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baby stop growing at 6 weeks and at 11 weeks I m/c. does it ever get easy? anyone m/c with there 1st? im scare I will never have baby
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March 27th, 2010, 10:12 PM
markswife's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I could have written your exact post in February. I had an ultrasound at 6w5d and the baby stopped growing at 5w1d. It is the worst feeling ever and I am just so sad that you have to feel that pain too. It doesn't get easy but it does get easier if that makes sense. This was my first pregnancy also and it is my worst fear that I will never get pregnant again or worse, will miscarry again. You've come to the right place. The women here are amazing and will help you get through this. hang in there!
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March 27th, 2010, 11:56 PM
dreamer10's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry for your loss. That is terrible. It does get easier...with time. It's so hard and sad and scary...but hang in there. As time goes on and your body heals your mind and heart will heal also. Now, that's not to say that it wont hurt...it always will, it just gets easier with time and soon you'll be able to think of that little one with love and not so much hurt. But in the meantime keep talking...these boards are wonderful and the women around here can really help by being able to empathize.....they are wonderful!
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March 28th, 2010, 01:26 AM
Happy Song's Avatar Nicole
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Libby it does get better. I am usually a lurker and I had three losses in six months after years of infertility. You are so much stronger than you can ever imagine. I am so sorry that you had to go through this.
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March 28th, 2010, 11:51 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I too m/c'd with my first, my 2nd and my 3rd but if you read some of the stories on this board if gives you hope. To know that so many other women have gone through this and now have happy health LOs! In time it gets easier to deal with-don't hold back your true emotions about it.
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March 28th, 2010, 12:02 PM
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I want to give you some hope. I m/c'd 3 angel babies, however I have 3 Living Children as well. My youngest was after my last 2 m/c's.

If you check out the other miscarriage board as well, there are many women there who have m/c'd their first and they would be a great support to you, I know that.
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March 29th, 2010, 10:11 AM
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Many women who m/c their first go on to have a successful pregnancy. RPL is actually rare. And most causes of RPL are easily treated. *hugs* Good luck on your journey.

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