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September 8th, 2010, 04:27 PM
Lex&angels's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Am I alone in pretending that this isn't my life, that this hasn't happened to me, and even, when talking to doctors, that we are discussing somebody else's life? I feel almost detached.

Am I alone in not even being quite sure what day it is? I feel like half the time my mind is stopped and I think we're still August 31st, and sometimes I think it's April 2011 (my EDD). On half the forms I've filled out lately, I put the date as being correct (I check it) but in 2011.

I just feel really weird this time.

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September 8th, 2010, 05:38 PM
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aw sweetie I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I know I dont post here a lot, but many of these girls know me well.

I'm an example that things really do get better. It's been 5 years since my first loss and I would say I am honestly about 99% into my healing. I love my babies, all five of them, but I have learned how to look forward to my future.

Your loss is fresh, oh so fresh. But you will start to feel better.

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September 8th, 2010, 07:33 PM
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Big hugs!
I'm sorry you are having a hard time.
I hope you can find inner-peace soon!
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September 8th, 2010, 08:24 PM
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I understand how you feel. I was stuck in the same place a while ago with my losses and it took me time, but I was able to get out of that place in regards to my losses. I notied with me the more I accepted the pregnancy and got excited, the harder it was to "let go" when it ended.

Just know you are not alone and take this a DAY at a time.
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September 8th, 2010, 09:21 PM
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Big, big hugs!!! You are absolutely not alone. While we might not all be in that exact same place right now, I think we've all been there before.

Traci gave you great advice. Take it one day at a time. I won't say that every day gets easier...you'll have your not so crappy days mixed right in with the crappy days. But eventually it won't feel quite so raw. Hang in there sweetie.

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