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November 15th, 2012, 09:43 PM
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all i do is cry, my back hurts like crazy, i can't sleep, i have nightmares about dying everytime i do sleep and my husband is sick and when i talk to him he never said a word, he just rubs my back.

i'm mad, and scared and sad.

it probably doesn't help that i've been diagnosed with severe hypochondria and anxiety.
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November 16th, 2012, 12:09 PM
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Hi, I'm new to the thread but I am very sorry your dealing with this. I myself have bee unable to rest well and having severe panic attacks lately. To the point I hyperventilate so bad I feel I may pass out. My heart beats so fast its scary. My husband, although a great man, deals with his own form of anxiety disorder so tries to comfort me but has no idea what to do. It's a very sad thing to live with each day. Have you or are you trying any type of medication tonhelp you with any of this? I really hope things get better for you hun.

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November 16th, 2012, 07:48 PM
Happy Song's Avatar Nicole
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I am so sorry, I have never had this issue but I have heard of some people who have. Let me see if I can get some help to come post.

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November 16th, 2012, 09:14 PM
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I asked and she said she disbanded her JM account but she said :

"Therapist and counseling from a Dr. It is what has helped me go from feeling like I am going to die every day to feeling like I am going to die a couple of times a week."

She recently posted this blog and said this person was going through a simular thing that she was, I have not read the blog but I hope it might help you.

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November 16th, 2012, 10:14 PM
plan4fate's Avatar I may bend, but not break
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I suffered from Suicidal depression after my first loss, so I have a small idea of how you might be feeling. I do recommend therapy, several types. First, the Doctor type. Then the chocolate and ice cream type. And then the retail type, go buy yourself a new pair of shoes or something. As much as you feel the world is coming down around you, getting out (don't go to a mall or Walmart, hit up specialty stores where you're less likely to see babies and pregnant women) WILL help. Enlist your best friend, the one who won't care if you break down over lunch or coffee.

Man do not know how to handle miscarriage. It is very different for them. Yes, they've lost a child too, but they do not have to have the physical aspects of it happen. For most, the only thing they know they can do that will not make you a- cry or b-get angry .. is to give you quiet comfort.
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