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August 25th, 2006, 06:34 PM
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Hi My name is Ashley and I posted on another board and someone suggested that I come here as well. We lost our first pregnancy in 2003 and then went on to concieve again and had a very wonderful pregnancy with my ds who is now 2. Then this Oct. we concieved again and It was a very rough pregnancy from the get go. I had terrible episodes of bleeding and was in the hospital over 30times. I almost lost my life. We ended up going into labor at 23 weeks and gave birth to a perfectly developed little boy who was just not strong enough to survive. He lived about 30 min and we did spend special time together, but saying goodbye to your baby is the hardest thing you can ever imagine. Well that was in March, and in July we found out we were pregnant for the 4th time. Super excited, something to look forward to and just dream of holding another baby in your arms was enough to keep you head held high. Well, my #did not double as they should and the dr ordered an u/s and just as we suspected the pregnancy had ended. After going through all we have been through we thought things were turning around for us, but that was not the case.

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August 25th, 2006, 07:19 PM
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Hi Ashley, welcome to the board. I hope you'll find support and comfort. We've got a good group of ladies who hold each other together.
I'm so sorry for all of your losses, and I'm glad you found us.

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August 25th, 2006, 07:28 PM
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Wow Ashley - I am so sorry. You have been through so much. this board is a great place to find understanding. We have all been through loss & after loss & we know how hard it is to go through the issues with other people, with Dr's - with life. We also undertand how hard it can be on a marriage - on your ability to keep hope, to feel up to being the fun mommy you want to be for your son that is here. It takes it's toll & you need a space to come to where such little explanation is required - where automatically we hear where you are coming from. A place where you can talk about ds & something nice that happened today or about how you laid in your closet & cried for 2 hrs... It's har d- because there are so many things you go through with loss, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, relationship-wise, financially, etc, etc, etc.

I am glad you found us. I hope you find sisterhood & hopefully some answers & support as you sort through it all. Please feel free also to find hte thread titled "Please Share"...and list your angels there so we can add them to the calendar if you like. Sending you much love-
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August 25th, 2006, 09:10 PM
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i posted on the other board also but again i am so very sorry for your losses.
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August 25th, 2006, 10:45 PM
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Oh Ashley, I am so so sorry for your losses. I can't even find words to express how much my heart aches for you.. I'm so sorry that you have to be here, but I'm very very glad you've found us. Sweetie, we are here for you... And please feel free to PM me if you need to talk...
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