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October 1st, 2006, 08:03 AM
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And here I am announcing my 3rd ectopic pregnancy in 13 months.....I went in Monday to see if they could find the lil bean as my levels were rising well and i was around 6 weeks and nothing. All they saw was a 5cm cyst on my left ovary. So, they were writing the papers to have the methotrexate done and I went to the bathroom and had this stabbing pain and I went to grab the nurse and at that point the dr did an exam (WHY? AS IF IM NOT IN ENOUGH PAIN).....and then decided that i was going to have surgery to remove my right tube..... I went to outpatient surgery and was waiting there for my DH to arrive, as I told him not to come-i'll be fine (boy was i wrong)....I got all hot and dizzy while they were trying to draw blood, i had to go to the bathroom (#2) and so the nurse helped me to the bathroom and there I passed out cold and just as Ryan was getting there they told him they were trying to "revive" me. They had to give me smelling salts to make me come to and there they lifted me onto a stretcher and rushed me into surgery......what a Monday......I am doing better now as I remembered from the 1st one how bad the first couple of days were after surgery, but I am feeling much better now-Im going to make my first trip to the store and get some fresh air. They say I can get the HSG test done in 6-8 weeks to find out how my left tube is. I really hope that I dont just ovulate from my right side or I could be in some trouble....right? If anyone is in this situatuon please enlighten me. Thanks so much!
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October 1st, 2006, 10:29 AM
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October 1st, 2006, 11:34 AM
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Oh sweetie - I am so sorry to hear this. I hope right now you are taking very good care of yourself & taking it very easy. As far as ovulating on only one side - I think that's fairly rare & something you don't need to worry about right at the moment. For now just be kind to yourself & give yourself a little time to heal. I am sure the Dr can go over the rest with you once you are recouperated & can have the HSG done. I wish you all the best & again am so very sorry for your loss & for all the additional trauma of another surgery.
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October 1st, 2006, 01:06 PM
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I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) Take care of yourself. ((Hugs))

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October 1st, 2006, 05:09 PM
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I'm so sorry hun. What a horrible thing to endure but to have to go through it 3 times is unthinkable.

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October 2nd, 2006, 08:57 AM
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I'm so sorry for all you've been through. I'm glad you were already at the doctor when the severe pain kicked in so they were right there to take care of you. Get lots of rest.
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October 2nd, 2006, 04:27 PM
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I am so sorry. I myself had two ectopic pregnancies. The first one they used the methotrexate. When I got pregnant again I didn't think it would happen again. I was in horrible excrutiating pain and got to the hospital somehow. My tube had burst so I had emergency surgery.

I was devastated. Now my chances are even lower. COnsidering it took us almost 6 years to get pregnant with the first one.

Well I had my surgery in July and the following October I had my first son. And one year and ten days later I had my second son.

I say have hope. I will keep you in my thoughts. It may take a little longer since you may ovulate from the same side two months in a row.

I will keep you in my thoughts.

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