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February 14th, 2009, 09:13 AM
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I have been convinced that I am pregnant, but I am starting to think I am wrong. I took a test today (Hoping to get a birthday BFP) and it was BFN! AF is still not here, but I think that if it hasn't shown BFP yet, it won't ever! We haven't done much BDing in Feb.... My DH and I have decided that if we are not pregnant this time, we wouldn't try until Jan of 2010! I want to be pregnant SO BAD, because I don't want to wait until then! I don't want to delay it anymore (Cause the older you get the harder it is) I am only 27 and already having problems! I just want to be a mommy!

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February 14th, 2009, 09:19 AM
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I hope you get a late BFP! How many DPO are you?

Have you talked to DH about how you're feeling? If not maybe you should tell him you don't want to wait that long and explain why.

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February 14th, 2009, 09:23 AM
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I have no idea how many DPO I am.... I still haven't had an AF since my D&C on 3rd of Jan! We have talked about it, he wants to wait a couple years, Jan 2010 is our compromise!

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February 14th, 2009, 10:59 AM
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I had my Surgery for my first loss on August 24th 05 and it was almost November before I had my first AF, and AF didn't reappear properly until January.

HUGS hun, I know how it feels to not want to wait. I've had 2 miscarriages, numerous chemical pregnancies and I'm only 25 years old! And I have no choice but to wait because I'm single. Talk to your DH and see what he says.
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February 15th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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I am not sugguesting doing this- but it is something to think about-

When we decided to start trying we had 2 miscarriages right away, and I had already lost twins before. We decided not to try, to get medical help, and my DH was going to go back to school. We decided that we would see what was wrong, then if possible fix it, then ttc again in 2-3 years. I thought I could handle that- but I couldn't, and I eventually gave my husband an ultimatium- I could not handle not TTC. He hadn't realized that I felt so strongly- and he was ok with ttc still.
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