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June 30th, 2009, 09:03 AM
~*Kixs*~'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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DH and I are currently NTNP. I keep saying it is b/c I want to wait until DS is 1yo. But that is not the truth at all.

The truth is I do not want to actively TTC b/c I don't want to have another m/c right now. June and July are mostly happy months for us. June 13th is DD's b-day, 19th is DH's b-day, then fathers day, then July 21st is DS 1st b-day. I did not want to 'ruin' any of those special days with another loss

My 1st loss was on July 31, 2004 so that day is specail in its own way too...KWIM.

I hate that I am 'planning' for another m/c not our 3rd child. It is so wrong of me. But I guess RPL does that to a girl.

Okay...I go it out and now I can move on! Right? Probably not but I will try

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June 30th, 2009, 09:44 AM
plan4fate's Avatar I may bend, but not break
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Aw hun don't feel bad. I've often felt the same way about wanting to TTC, I've only had 2 "full" losses, but I've had numerous chemicals. My dr keeps telling me it's from being on birth control, but that doesn't make me feel any better for the future.

Take the summer off, you deserve a break!
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June 30th, 2009, 09:48 AM
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I know the feeling. I don't want to try right after the wedding because it would mean a third July due date.

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