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August 24th, 2004, 08:50 PM
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Last night my best (girl) friend in the entire world called me last night, very upset. You know how when you answer the phone you just *know* it's bad news on the other end? Well, I just knew when the phone rang. She and I have a connection like that.

Anyhow ... Before she broke down crying, she managed to tell me that her boyfriend, one of my very good friends, has cancer.

Skin cancer, at 20 years old.

She'd been nagging at him to get this mole checked out on his upper back/neck/shoulder area ... finally, after 6 months he did a biopsy just to make her happy.

And it's cancer.

Fortunately, it is not aggressive skin cancer, and thank God for that. He won't have to go through radiation or chemo therapy (at least for now). He is scheduled to get the mole thing removed on Wednesday or Thursday, and hopefully this will be the only treatment he will have to go through. I am hoping that it is.

I am just so shocked and devastated. I haven't talked to him, yet ... my best friend he is handling it better than she is, LOL.

So please keep my good friend in your thoughts and prayers, and I will keep you all updated.

Thanks ...
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August 24th, 2004, 08:53 PM
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Well God willing he will be fine. My GreatGrandpa (the only person I know that had skin cancer) got it removed from his ear when he was in his early 50's and he was with us till he was 87. I will keep him in my prayers though.
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August 24th, 2004, 08:54 PM
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praying for you friend
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August 24th, 2004, 09:00 PM
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I had a malignant melanoma removed in April (?, march? LOL). It was a thin layer (as best as you can get with a melanoma).

wanna know the only question that I asked the dermatologist?


I swear, I wasn't as shocked as I should have been. They went in and removed another cm of tissue surrounding the first section that they removed. Let me tell you ... that 2nd incision hurt worse than sex after an episiotomy!!! All is well. I just had my 2nd mole/lymph node check since the excision. I have to go every 3 months for a year and beyond that, I have no idea.

I'll send P&PT to your friend. It's definitely scary to hear those words.
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August 25th, 2004, 04:27 AM
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HUGS and prayers coming their way!
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August 25th, 2004, 06:06 AM
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Thank goodness he finally went to the doctors. I will pray that things go well. Good luck!!
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August 25th, 2004, 06:15 AM
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I'm so sorry. I'll keep your friends in my thoughts.

I'm glad he finally went to the doctor! I hope everything turns out okay!
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August 25th, 2004, 06:42 AM
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Prayers said!!
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August 25th, 2004, 06:45 AM
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OH that's scary! I have some moles that Dh always wants me to get looked at and I keep putting it off...maybe I should! Oh that's really scary. I hope things turn out for the best!
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August 25th, 2004, 08:22 AM
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They will be in my thoughts and prayers...Good luck to him
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