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July 31st, 2006, 03:47 PM
littleangel's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ok so first off DH is in Iraq, and she wants these shirts that he sent me some funny thing about the military being over there. Anyways DH told her he could get her one and that if anyone else wanted one to let him know and that they cost $xx.xx and to send the money to me to put in his account. Well that was over 3 months ago. he has about 1 month left to go ( , ok got that out of my system LOL) and the last time I talked her which was a couple weeks ago or something I don't know but she was fairly rude said that she was going to be sending me the money soon. I asked her if she wanted to just transffer the money to his acocunt, but she said that was too much trouble. So this morning I get an e-mail from DH wanting to know if I had gotten the check yet because he was checking out money and did not see it there. I wrote back and told him no I had not getten anything. So then he wrote his mom, who wrote him back and said....how she had sent the money out to me, maybe he should ask if I put it in my acocunt not his (we have seperate accounts, I find it easier to handle money better I give him his and then I work with the bills and such in mine anyways...) So I guess now I am stealing money from her right?! And then says she does not know why we cannot afford to get her and a few other people some shirts. But it is not just for her it is for a bunch of poeple she works with and friends and so on... That I spend too much money. (how does she know what I spend??????) Then we bought a jeep from his grandmother, I left it up to him about the payments, it is taken out each month. She goes on to say that I am not paying his grandmother enough money!!!! hello I have not changed a thing at all with how much. Also if she has a problem with it then she needs to write him or call me about it.!!!! And since neither of us have heard a thing I figure she must not actually have a problem. This was making him mad as well. So he wrote his mom and told no I have not gotten it and that it will probably come in the mail in the next few days. Then I check e-mail after I thought it was all over and I have an e-mail from her saying that I need to depost the check and that she checked and saw it had not been depoited yet. That she wants her shirt. So I nicely write her back and told her I just wrote Shawn and told him to go ahead and get an extra shirt and that if for some reason we don't get the money he has one for her and if we do then he has one for her. She writes DH back and I have no idea what was in that, but she wrote me to tell me that she just wrote him and he hopes he can get this taken care of for her. Get what taken care of? i have no check!!!! i am so not in high school, I should not have to deal with this crap and with a women who is 50 years old at that she should know better!!!!! I think she is mad because I told her she could nto be here when he gets home, so maybe she is trying to start something with his home coming around the corner. The e-mail I sent to her I also sent to Shawn. I am so sick of her. OK well thanks for reading I did not think it would be so long!

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July 31st, 2006, 07:10 PM
*Bry*'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I can see your frustrations!
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July 31st, 2006, 09:45 PM
Melz's Avatar Team Edward
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Are you sure shes in her 50's? She sounds like shes in her teens.. I feel your pain..

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