Log In Sign Up

help! i'm ttc after the pill!

Forum: Trying to Conceive


Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to [email protected].

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By MrsMommy

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Trying to Conceive LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
May 8th, 2012, 11:49 AM
topato's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Western PA
Posts: 1,398
Hey everyone, I have a few questions! TMI warning~ lol

I stopped taking the pill in March after 3 years so we could TTC. I was on it to regulate AF-- I have *never* been regular without the pill.

But here's the thing. While on it, I'd get a light period every 28 days. After I stopped the pill in March, AF still came right on schedule. I was so happy thinking I was ready to start TTC, and started monitoring CM. I was pretty sure I was even able to tell when I od.

AF did come in April but was a bit late, at CD32... and CM this month has been ...wonky. Now I'm incredibly confused as to when to expect things to happen (when am i fertile, when do i O, when should I expect AF this month?)

DH and I have been BDing basically every night since AF stopped just in case, but what do you guys think? Should I split the difference and assume I O at CD30? Am I even O'ing this soon after the pill?

Sigh! any advice would be appreciated <3
Reply With Quote
May 8th, 2012, 12:03 PM
Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 126
Hello! I've never been on the pill so ill try my best to help but don't know if I can be much use! Your body might be still trying to work itself out, you've been on it three years so it might just need alittle more time to get back to normal pre say! Now that your off the pill and trying to concieve, it'll probably take three cycles of charting or so to know your cervical mucus and position routine(I could be completely wrong of course this is just what I've read! ) I've also heard taking prenatal vitamins while ttc is a good thing, you might want to start out them too! I hope you are successful and who knows, you might get pregnant right away even just coming off the pill it happens! Lots of sticky baby dust your way!!! Keep us updated!!! Good luck!!!
Caerus likes this.
Reply With Quote
May 8th, 2012, 04:49 PM
Keshlia0866's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Texas
Posts: 1,179
Hey there! Welcome! My guess is that your body is getting the pills out of your system. Normally it can take up to 6 months after getting off the pill before you get pregnant. Granted... that is not true for everyone. Since you do not have a regular cycle I would recomend bbt temping and watching your cm to help aid on when you o. I am not regular withoutthe pill either because I have PCOS so I have to chart and closely monitor cm to be able to determine if my body is trying to do anything or not. Best of luck to you!
Reply With Quote
May 11th, 2012, 08:17 PM
topato's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Western PA
Posts: 1,398
Thank you, ladies! Since I posted, I did some research and it seems you're both right. I've already started prenatals (from when I stopped the pill in March) and hopefully I have some good luck! <3
Reply With Quote
May 11th, 2012, 09:03 PM
Purple_cat's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Apr 2012
Posts: 3,206
I don't have any advice about coming off the pill, but I wanted to say welcome!
Reply With Quote
May 11th, 2012, 09:52 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 4,994

Something to keep in mind is that the pill doesn't regulate your cycles. It stops you from ovulating, and then you stop taking it for a week (or take sugar pills) and have a "breakthrough" bleed. If you had irregular cycles before the pill, then it's likely that those issues are still there and it might take awhile to figure out when you are ovulating. Not impossible, just might take a little more work.

Check out fertilityfriend.com for some tutorials on charting (which I highly reccomend, especially if your cycles are screwy!) and possibly try some OPK's so that you can pinpoint when you're about to ovulate.

Good luck!
New siggie coming soon!

Due with #2 after 5 years of TTCMA. FET #1 after IVF #2 and immune therapy was just the ticket apparently!
Reply With Quote
May 12th, 2012, 10:43 AM
Lucky Mama's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Utah
Posts: 5,575

Hi and welcome!

Fertilityfriend.com is a great resource! It will help you get the basics down and allow you to keep track of all you fertile signs, your cycle averages (length, LP length, O day, etc.), and when you've BD'd to help you have th best chance of conceiving quickly!

Don't hesitate to ask any questions you have and make yourself at home!

____ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
Reply With Quote
May 12th, 2012, 10:57 AM
FishermansWife4's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2012
Posts: 2,578
Hi. Welcome! I also recommend an app for your phone such as Ovuwatch. Good luck and super baby dust to you!
Amber Wife of Tim ; Mom to - (7) (4) (3), (2 months) and Step mom (9)

2013 Mommy
"No freedom til' we're equal. D*mn right I support it." - Macklemore "Same love"
Reply With Quote
May 12th, 2012, 12:08 PM
Loving My Piglets
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: England, UK
Posts: 34,596
I ditto fertility friend a very good tool to keep track of your cycles! also you might want to start BD every other day rather than everyday as doing it everyday can effect the quality of the sperm
..together for 12 years..

R (10) 24.04.06 - our little angel
R (9) 07.06.07
L (8) 05.06.08
L (6) 26.04.10
C (3) 15.02.13

Reply With Quote
May 13th, 2012, 04:22 PM
topato's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Western PA
Posts: 1,398
Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate the help and advice! I'll def. check out that charting website! ...What's funny is that I have a feeling our trying may have actually taken this month. I really don't want to get my hopes up yet! But, I do need to ask now... do any of you know anything about (or has anyone experienced) implantation bleeding? (I will most likely cross post this new question into a new thread also) Thanks again ladies!!
Reply With Quote
May 13th, 2012, 05:23 PM
topato's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Western PA
Posts: 1,398
Just in case, this is the link to my implantation bleeding question.
Reply With Quote

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:29 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0