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May 3rd, 2013, 05:59 AM
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Hey Ladies

Sorry I needed a day to cry and be depressed. I got to the appt and they wanted a lot more money up front than we had anticipated so we cancelled the cycle. So no ultrasound, no trigger shot, and no IUI. I keep telling myself that this just gives us another month to save up more for next two cycles. But deep down it still hurts so much and I pretty much cried all day yesterday. Pretty sure I did ovulate yesterday anyway because my temp was way low, 36.09 in celsius which is the lowest it has ever been with temping. Sad thing is DH and I have been working so much lately between that and the clomid my sex drive has been shot. So pretty much haven't had sex at all and last night was the first time we have had sex in over a week. So I don't hold out much if any hope for this cycle. Sorry to be such a debbie downer but I'm a little upset. Thanks ladies for all your positive thoughts, vibes, and prayers. Just hoping that next cycle will be our lucky cycle. Only upside is we meet my parents today to get DS and looking forward to that.

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Sarah Jane
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May 3rd, 2013, 06:12 AM
sareymac's Avatar Mommy to Gary & Adalyn
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I am so sorry I will keep my fingers crossed for you. I know how you feel, for the most part anyway. Keep your head up and never apologize!! Thats what we are here for
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May 3rd, 2013, 06:52 AM
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It is understandable that you feel so down. Im sorry that this cycle is a bust. Hang in there. I hope you start feeling more like yourself soon.
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May 3rd, 2013, 07:04 AM
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I'm sorry it didn't go well and that it caused this cycle to be a bust. I hope your time comes soon though.
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May 3rd, 2013, 07:17 AM
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I'm so sorry! I have my fingers crossed for you!
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May 3rd, 2013, 02:51 PM
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We will all keep you in our T&P. I know you will get the little bean you deserve very soon. You are a wonderful mother and a great friend. I know God has huge things planned for you.
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May 3rd, 2013, 03:36 PM
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May 3rd, 2013, 04:17 PM
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(((HUGS))) So sorry sweetie - that must have been so disappointing! Thankfully you know now, and can be prepared for next month! FX that maybe you caught your eggie and you won't even need it next month.
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May 3rd, 2013, 04:34 PM
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Your right time is around the corner! Only a matter of time...you will have that baby! You will be OVER THE MOON..and it will be more magical than you ever imagined....hang in there

<<hugs>> thumbs down to being restricted this month.
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May 3rd, 2013, 05:21 PM
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I'm praying that you won't even need that appt.

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May 3rd, 2013, 06:53 PM
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So sorry things did not go as planned.... sending you a great big
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May 3rd, 2013, 07:36 PM
bella88's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Aww I'm sorry to hear that this cycle has been suck and that you got an unpleasant surprise at the doctors . Hope you don't need it and you get an O+12 baby this cycle
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May 3rd, 2013, 08:26 PM
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Thanks ladies for your thoughts and hugs. I really appreciate them because I'm really having a hard time with this. I would really like to think that the Clomid plus having sex that one day helped us catch the eggie. I am hoping that I don't have to go back. Because I have to be totally honest, I'm leery of doing IUI next month because it means that DS could potentially share a birthday with his sibling. I know that is stupid but I always wanted my kids to be able to have separate birthday months. Ugh, I don't even know what I'm complaining about, I should just be happy if I ever get preggo again.

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May 3rd, 2013, 09:38 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this! I will be thinking about you and you have my prayers girl! I have so much hope for you and we are all here for you!!
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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May 3rd, 2013, 09:44 PM
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I'm sorry I will tell you this much. I got pregnant with my DS with just sex once that entire month. It is possible.
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May 4th, 2013, 06:36 AM
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I'm sorry about the surprise at the doctors. That's no fun...

Hoping you caught that egg!
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May 4th, 2013, 06:37 PM
Faith=2xBlessed's Avatar PrettyCrispy Scrunchy Mom
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I'm so sorry Sarah big big hug!! I pray you wont even need that appt!!! My fingers are def crossed for you darling!
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May 5th, 2013, 02:03 AM
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Oh I'm so sorry you're down. I have my fingers crossed for you for this month still! I know from experience with a couple of my kiddo's, all it took was once! Fx'd!
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