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September 16th, 2013, 10:20 PM
Join Date: Sep 2013
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Hello everyone!

I had this board recommended to me by a good friend who got a lot of support here. I was part of another site that had...well....lets just say it wasn't the best environment for low stress and being open and honest.

Anyway, I just started TTC Sept. 2nd and today I was 14DPO. I took my first HPT and it was negative. AF still hasn't showed up yet, but I found the negative to be a real sobering bummer. It just made me realize that unlike certain lucky friends of mine, it's not happening right away. I realize that since it takes an average couple 6 months to a year to conceive I have a lot of BFNs in front of me. I just have to keep thinking positive!

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September 17th, 2013, 08:51 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 1,246
Welcome to the board, i know you will find all the ladies here very supportive and helpful in you ttc journey, in which I hope will be short and sweet and you will be celebrating your bfp very soon!!

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September 17th, 2013, 09:23 AM
Fist Pumping Champ
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: NYC
Posts: 9,803
Welcome to the board! I hope you get your BFP asap!

May 2013 - Ectopic pregnancy
July 2014 - Miscarriage

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September 17th, 2013, 10:52 AM
BabyX's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Texas
Posts: 2,077
Welcome! You will definitely find lots of good advice and encouragement on this board. I'm sorry that you got a BFN! They all hurt from the very first one and on. Hopefully the next cycle is yours.
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September 17th, 2013, 04:20 PM
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September 17th, 2013, 04:37 PM
Boss Mama
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Toronto, Canada
Posts: 8,254
My name is Kim. The ladies here are wonderful and knowledgable. You will fit in perfect. Hope your stay is short
BFP #1 - Baby boy born May 10 1998
BFP #2 - Baby Girl born March 22 2002
BFP #3 - Baby girl born September 18 2009
We started trying for our last child in September 2011 and it has been a rollercoaster
BFP #4 Baby girl Lauren born sleeping at 18 weeks July 5 2012 (PPROM) no answers why
BFP #5 - D&C Feb 11 2013 (heart Stopped at 13 weeks)
BFP #6 - Miscarriage at 8 weeks Nov 28 2014
BFP #7 - Baby girl Kimiah Genesis born sleeping at 23 weeks June 28 2016 (PPROM and PtL) found out after autopsy i had an infection and need to go on antibiotic therapy if i get pregnant

My Ovulation Chart

Some days i feel to just give up but a part of me can't let go of the thought of hopefully one day God blessing us again!!!!
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