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December 2nd, 2013, 05:01 PM
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My brother is coming in to town in 2 weeks!!! I'm so excited to see him!

He will be here from the 14th to the 24th, and my fertile window is predicted 12th-19th!! I'm thinking I will O on the 14th or 15th. I honestly don't think DH will be able to perform with my little brother in the next room. Dh is not very adventurist either, so no sneak into the garage or in the shower. He's a very strict, only in the "marital bed" kind of guy.
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December 2nd, 2013, 05:32 PM
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I would get DH to put sperm in a cup and frezze it till o day, even if it don't for you could say you try

or just bed anyway,
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December 2nd, 2013, 05:56 PM
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Tell him ya gotta do what ya gotta do Remind him what its going to be like trying to BD with your kids in the next room LOL Who knows, maybe it'll be hotter since you have to be quiet and sneak around like you're teenagers again :-)

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December 2nd, 2013, 09:54 PM
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Oh you totally have to take up the challenge ! Get down to VS or Fredrick's of Hollywood and make it so he CANT POSSIBLY say no. Act like it's no big deal they are there, business as usual. Maybe if he sees you are calm and comfortable , paying no mind, he might follow along. I agree with momopotamus ! Quiet and no noise can be a turn on. Good luck !! Hope you get your bfp

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December 2nd, 2013, 10:06 PM
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Rape him? JK

But, maybe he can give you some in a cup? And you can put it in. Or send your brother to the store a few times

I'd honestly be completely honest with my brother. Look, we're trying to have a baby. i'm ovulating the week you're here. Do you think you can disapear for like 30 minutes on these days? Run to the store or whatever?

Maybe that will help
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December 2nd, 2013, 10:15 PM
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I hope it all works out. I have to figure out a way to be more quiet! DH said he will not have any problems and that we need to just do it no matter what. My DH will be working 12 hour shifts the whole time my brother is here, and I'm off work, so we will be staying up late while my DH sleeps.

This is my DH's plan: Every night BD and tell my brother that we always talk for a half hour before bed.

Not sure how that will work! I disappear for 30 or so minutes and come back out all flush with my hair a mess. Yeah.... How awkward would that be!? Guess what, we are pregnant, and the baby was conceived while you were in the living room thinking I was tucking in my DH!

Maybe we can some how work in a few morning BD, but I'm not really up to it at 5am!

Defiantly don't want ANYONE knowing we are TTC until we are at least 12 weeks. Was only going to tell my brother if we were pregnant on Christmas, and that's not happening this year :-(
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December 2nd, 2013, 11:43 PM
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You can do it...just be quiet. My daughter was conceived at my in laws house on Thanksgiving. It's kind of a funny memory now!

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December 3rd, 2013, 01:49 AM
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I hope everything works out! DH said his plan is to not BD until CD9 so he has lots of stamina! I don't think it works that way, and I don't want to go that long without BD. Ready or not, I'm getting me some on CD7
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December 3rd, 2013, 07:30 AM
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Haha!! Well, if its too hard at night, you just might have to try to sneak it in the morning before he goes to work, plus, he'll be more in the mood in the a.m. Make him a cup of coffee too, it helps the swimmers!! I HATE getting up early, but in my fertile window, I will be at the bedside with coffee for him!

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