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September 14th, 2007, 03:17 PM
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I'm new to this page and am looking for help, short verson, I'm 35 and just went off the pill in feb07 miscarrige with dnc at the end of april 07. had my period in may nothing in june but not preg. again in july and then 28 days later on aug 6 now nothing and a test 9-6-07 said no but i am tired and my boobs are starting to hurt (nipples) they hurt the first time. is it possible? how long should I to retest? or should I forget it.please email if you have any advise [email protected]

Well I retested tues. moring and still a no but still no signs of a period either. I feel kindda silly still hoping that it is possible but I do wonder. I have had some slight cramping but not much and last week some pain by my belly botton area. My bbs are still very sensitive in the nipple area. I also noticed I think last week very clear strechy cm and then a few days later very thick white cm.( TMI) I know but I need help. Is possible to be pregnant and get a neg.? I tested the 1st time when I was 2weeks late. My cousin said she had to be at least a week or more for a hpt to be pos. I guess with my age and the fact I misscarried the first time I'm real nervious about not being able to get pregnant. I was always very irregular as a teen also, I wonder if that is playing a part here. I went on bc because I was so irregular at 18. Does anyone have any advice????

I called my doc. tues morning and they said to wait to see what happens till next. tues. all this waiting is driving me nuts. I had this on the am i pregnant boards but decided to post here as well. well thanks in advance
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September 14th, 2007, 03:51 PM
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Just welcoming you to the board and wishing you the best.

I might not have gone through similar circumstances, but I am sure there are ladies in TTC after Miscarriage Board who can truly identify.

however I really know how hard it is to wait till Tuesday!! Tell me about it. I am waiting for my blood test results till Monday and it feels like NEXT YEAR!

Best wishes!
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Precious - 7 yrs old
Trinity - 5 yrs old
Jordan - 3 yrs old
Children are an inheritance from the Lord. The fruit of the womb a reward.
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September 14th, 2007, 05:06 PM
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Okay, my thoughts as I am 34. As you start getting in your mid-thirties your cycles can become irregular. My first concern would be that maybe you aren't ovulating or you are ovulating, but more erratically. I am into fertility charting myself, but don't recommend it to everyone. However, in your case, you are clearly having irregular cycles so I think a month of charting would really do some good. If you are not testing positive, it is possible that you ovulated later in your cycle and this is why you are not getting a BFP. It is also possible that you are not ovulating or ovulating later in your cycle than you think and this is why AF is late. Either way I would test again if AF hasn't shown up in a week. You also might consider calling your doctor. Another way to check and see if you are ovulating or not besides charting is having blood work done. Your doctor can check your progesterone levels and this can tell you for sure whether you are ovulating or not.

And finally welcome to the TTC board! Very glad to have you join us!

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September 14th, 2007, 05:48 PM
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Welcome aboard! I am sorry for your loss and for the fact that you are having irregular cycles. Good luck at your doc appointment and I hope you get your BFP really soon! Please keep us up to date!

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September 15th, 2007, 12:41 PM
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I don't have anything to add just wanted to say Welcome to the board & good luck
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September 15th, 2007, 08:16 PM
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*bump* hoping to find more answers for you!!*

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September 15th, 2007, 08:33 PM
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FIrst off... I'm very sorry for your loss... I'm recovering froma mc w/ a D&C myself... my Dr. said it may take a few months for my body go get regular again, its been through alot and needs a bit of time for your hormones to reulate themselves. I would recommend talking to your Dr. and asking what they think.

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September 15th, 2007, 09:35 PM
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to everything said above. I wish I could help you more but I just wanted to give you a big welcome to the board and I really hope things get figured out for you and you get your BFP soon!!!

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September 15th, 2007, 10:20 PM
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<span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">WELCOME!! I am SO sorry for your loss. I just wanted to wish you GOOD LUCK at your dr.'s appt.</span>

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