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April 8th, 2013, 03:00 PM
Join Date: Apr 2013
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I'm pregnant for the first time ever...... My fiancee and I are getting married in 40 days (we've been wedding planning for a year) and we just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant. I was shocked when I found out, thinking only had this happened 2 more months in the future I would have been thrilled with the news! I'm sure some people will think I'm being selfish and ungrateful. But I been planning my wedding for a year and I never thought this would happen, I always thought I would have issues with getting pregnant, due medical issues I've had. However, I'm also sure I'm not the first woman to be "secretly" (I don't plan to tell anyone until after the wedding, other than my mom so that we can figure out the options for my wedding dress) pregnant on their wedding day.... If you have a similar situation, i would love to chat and hear about it!!!
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April 8th, 2013, 03:19 PM
Spyctre's Avatar Arwen
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Location: Freaking Louisiana
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You've probably already picked out your wedding dress. Well, you might not show much at 10 weeks. Some ladies show very early, but if this is your first, you will probably be safe till 14-16 weeks. You'll get a pudge by then for sure! lol Congratulations!
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April 8th, 2013, 04:28 PM
sethsgirl's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Congrats! I don't have any stories or advice but I didn't start showing with my first until I was 23 weeks. I was able to wear my regular clothes until 18 weeks and then a belly band over my regular jeans until about 21 weeks. Now my 2nd pregnancy and this one I showed very early but that's because it was subsequent pregnancies and I will have 3 kids 4 and under once this baby is born. I hope everything works out, your dress fits and your wedding is everything you hoped it would be!
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April 8th, 2013, 08:26 PM
OatmealKisses's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I was only a few days pregnant with my first when we married, too early to even get a positive pregnancy test. We were TTC though, we knew were getting married very soon, and it didn't matter.

You aren't the first in that situation, and you won't be the last. Congrats!

Angel Baby gone at 9 weeks, 7/8/13
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April 8th, 2013, 09:22 PM
Loving6's Avatar Formerly Loving4
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Missouri
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I didn't show with my first till almost 5 months then I literally popped. I found out I was pregnant a month after my husband proposed to me,it was a shock but we still got married when I was 6 months pregnant. We planned a June wedding before I found out and we stuck with it.

Mom to Dustin Jr, Jarren, Nathan, Alivia, Ava, & Ariea

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April 9th, 2013, 10:26 AM
inyourhonor's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I wasn't secretly pregnant when we got married. I was almost 6 months along. We didn't get married because of the pregnancy, we were engaged before, we just figured we'd move the date up a bit (I actually had my baby shower on our original planned wedding date). Congratulations

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Marisa (29) married to J (35), mama to G (10), D (7), B (5) and K (1).
Little Miss joined our family Dec 4th, 2015 at 35 weeks.
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