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December 3rd, 2013, 07:23 PM
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Hello everybody.
My name is alisan. Im 22. Back in July i found out i was pregnant. I was so thrilled! I went to my appoinment in August and i was 10 weeks &4 days. When the tech did my ultrasound she told me there was no heart beat and the baby(jace, because i felt in my heart it was a boy..) stopped growing at 8.5 weeks. The next day i had a d& c. My ob told us to wait 2 cycles, but im a very impatient person. We tried for 2 months. And nothing. And we've been trying all November. Expecting my period in a week and a half. But just the last couple days I've been feeling weird. I've been so naseasus! I feel the way i did before except my boobs arent hurt or swollen. I read online your body picks the sympts up faster because I've already been through it. I just dont want to get my hopes up again. I just was looking for a place to vent because nobody im around knows how i feel....
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December 3rd, 2013, 07:55 PM
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Usually when miscarriages or still borns, you should usually wait the recommended months or weeks that your OB has given you so your body can heal. I would seriously wait a month or two before trying again if you end up with a BFN, so your body can heal and allow you to conceive a little bean. On the other side, I hope you get some good news when/if you test. Keep us posted. And welcome!
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December 3rd, 2013, 09:50 PM
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Unfortunately early pregnancy symptoms and normal cycle symptoms can be interchangeable, so there's really no way to know if you might be pregnant until closer to your expected period. For now just try not to get too excited (I know, easier said than done!), and just focus on eating healthy and taking your vitamins.

The first few months after your d&c you may not have even ovulated, so don't be discouraged that you haven't conceived yet. You could start testing in about a week with a stack of cheap dollar store tests first thing each morning and keep your eye out for a faint line. Keep us posted and I hope you get your bfp this month!
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December 4th, 2013, 09:40 AM
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((hugs)) I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage before my last baby. It took me 8 months to get pregnant and stay pregnant again. I seriously got my BFP the month I was due with my angel baby. It was perfect in it's own way.

Anyway, hang in there. Wait till closer till AF is due and test! Good luck!
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December 4th, 2013, 04:53 PM
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I'm so sorry you're dealing with that! Loss of any kind is so hard to deal with you. Hang in there and I hope you get the news you are waiting for {{hugs}}
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December 5th, 2013, 08:19 AM
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I have had two miscarriages and two ectopic pregnancies. After my last tubal they told me to wait two or three cycles as well but I didn't. They mainly suggest that so that they can date your pregnancy. There is no real evidence that waiting longer improves your outcome. Actually newer studies have shown that the sooner you conceive after a miscarriage the better.
Study: No Need to Delay Pregnancy After Miscarriage

When was your last period? Were your last couple cycles normal or longer than usual? My cycles are always wacky for a month or so after I've had a miscarriage.

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