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June 14th, 2011, 08:36 PM
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i know im not in the category of getting a divorce....but 3 years ago i was there ready to get a divorce but we worked things out.....the issue was due to infidelity on his part....which i forgave him for...as there were many many factors leading up to that event.... including me telling him many many times to go out and find a girlfriend....yeah never a good idea...i know that now! but what i have been thinking about is our wedding vows...since that has happened i feel those vows have been broken....for those of you working it out due to infidelity did you think about renewing your vows because they had been broken?? i would really love for me and dh to renew ours because the old ones just dont mean anything really to me anymore.....does anyone else feel like that?

Kristy, wife to Karl 6.16.01, Mom to Raianna 12.7.00, Elyse 12.3.02 and Helena 7.20.07, step-mom to Frankie 7.3.97 and step-grandma to October 3.9.15

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June 15th, 2011, 10:24 AM
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i feel the same!!! ive told him that i want a new wedding ring. we were discussing getting our vows renewed before i found out about his infidelity
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August 24th, 2011, 02:53 AM
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I think that would be a great idea and would kind of be a symbol as a fresh start for the both of you. Ebony I totally agree about the wedding ring. Due to some financial problems we had to get a loan on my ring but during a fight with my husband about his past lies and emotional infedility I told him that I don't even want to get it out of pawn. He was taken by surprise by this but I just have so many bad memories and for me that ring represents those.
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