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October 30th, 2012, 09:26 PM
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We've been married for 4 years, together for 7. My previous relationship was with a needy man and my husband was a welcome change, he has always had his own hobbies and such so I never felt like he was smothering me. For the last 3 months, he started a new job and still works for the military reserves, he would leave at 730am and gets home at 9 or 10. All of my support people think he's cheating on me but I don't think he has time. He brought up "breaking up" mid-coitus (our sex life hasn't changed in the least and is/was very healthy) and the next day he left.
What are the chances of this working out? Whenever I ask him what makes him unhappy, what can I do, why didn't you mention anything, he simply says "I do't know what to tell you" or "I don't know". He said he thought I was going to leave him, things weren't awesome but no way did I think they were this terrible, I though we were in a transitional period.
Anyone else have a similar experience - I still love him and would love to work on it but he's very disconnected. We've been seeing him more than we have in 2 days than in the last 3 months but I think it's because he feels guilty that I've been pretty much inconsolable. Just wondering what the likelihood of this ending shiny and sparkly is. Also should I continue sleeping with him or is that just a ridiculous.
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