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August 22nd, 2006, 01:05 PM
carolinagirl's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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a scumbag! I just found out after being separated for 3 weeks that he has had a long standing GF. So imagine my surprise and dismay when that juicy little tid bit was released onto me today! I want to claw his eyes out! How dare he accuse ME of leaving him for another man when he was the one who had been cheating all along. They say those that accuse their partners are the quilty ones. I think back and all the signs of him cheating were there, I just tortured myself and said I was being stupid and paranoid. I am such an idiot for not seeing it sooner. I am so glad to be out of that relationship but I am still sad. I think it's because I really tried hard to make things right for the past two years.

I now have a great guy in my life and I couldn't be happier.. he treats me with respect and is genuinely caring. He's never made me feel stupid or been condescending towards me. He's absolutely wonderful. He has been my biggest cheerleader thru all of this mess. He has been there to pick me up and dust me off and encourage me when I am scared. Most of all he's just been kind and given me an ear to bend when I needed it. I am so glad that we finally have this type of board!!
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August 22nd, 2006, 01:32 PM
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wow thats sucks u just found out. its good that its over and u have what sounds to be a great guy now. wish u the best
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August 22nd, 2006, 02:47 PM
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Copied from my response in The Venting Room:

Goodness! Typical of men! I don't blame you, I would be furious too. Count your blesses that you have gotten rid of him. Best revenge is to be happy in your new life.
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August 22nd, 2006, 04:14 PM
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I would be soooooo pissed!!! and I'm glad you have a good man now, not a POS.
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August 22nd, 2006, 10:36 PM
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What a horrible thing to find out, but at the same time I'm glad you have someone new who treats you right
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August 26th, 2006, 07:56 AM
Blue Eyes 409's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry that you are going threw this. Men are so stupid I also have found that when I am accused of cheating it is usually the man. I am here if you want to talk you got my number!

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August 31st, 2006, 07:28 PM
FiFi'sMom's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Are we married to the same man lol my husband was the same way only he was sleeping with and stole his brother's fiancee.
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