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December 5th, 2008, 08:33 AM
MrsRestivo's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'd rather still be on my July DDC, but I got a 2nd ultrasound this week and the doctor said it didn't grow enough so I'm going to lose it. I hate it because I still feel so pregnant and I'm not ready to let it go. My mother wont quit calling me to tell me to get a D&C, which I don't want to do. She had a m/c and said it hurts badly and its very hard to see it come out. I can appreciate that, but I don't want to end this myself. If it has to end, I want it to do it on its own time. She has even called my DH and now he's hassling me to do it too, because he's scared of how I will take it. We're just starting our own company and its a lot of sales work required. I don't want to put on a smile. I don't want to go charm business owners. I just want to lie in bed, and sleep like its not real. No one understands that. They're like, "get over it and move on." I'm not ready yet. Is that bad?? Should I just do a D&C and move on with my life?

All opinions are appreciated.


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December 7th, 2008, 08:11 AM
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Hon, there is no "get over it and move on" when it comes to losing a baby. (((hugs))) Take the time you need. You certainly need to try to move forward, but grieve as you need to as well. It's OK! I am so sorry for your loss.

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December 8th, 2008, 10:31 PM
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You need to rest and ask God to give you strength to get through each and everyday. Ask him to help you make a choice that you will be happy with. No one wants to lose a child and until they do people do not understand what we have to go through.

Best of luck with your choice and I am sending you big


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