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December 1st, 2010, 09:08 PM
Join Date: Dec 2010
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I had a miscarriage a couple months ago and I was wondering if this could have caused it....

I was areound 12weeks and my finace and I got in an arguement. He got mad and grabbed the chair I was sitting on threw it, which made me fall to the ground. He was really mad and started tossing me around. He's not abusive, but something snapped in him. I guess we made up a couple of hours later and had sex, but he was kind of rough. After I went to the bathroom and when I wiped and there was light pink blood, I thought maybe we had sex too rough and it would be ok, because I had had spotting one time before. Well the bleeding got worse over the next couple of days and on day 3 I had an at home misscarriage and saw everything come out. I was wondering if the fight did cause the miscarrige would I have had my the actual passing of the baby so soon because I know some women are told by their doctors it takes like 2weeks before they'll have a natural misscarige.

I also thought maybe it jump started the miscarrige, like I already lost the baby before the fight and it just caused it to happen quicker.

This has really been bothering me and I would like any help. Thank you.
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December 3rd, 2010, 06:10 PM
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I'm sorry about your fight, as far as that causing a miscarriage it could have especially during the tossing around process. Another thing is you could have lost the baby prior to that and the rough sex could have started contractions. Like when you are close to your due date and they suggest to have sex to jump start labor. My miscarriage only took a few days for my body to start passing it. I stopped having symptoms on a Saturday and started bleeding that Monday, but everybody is different. Unless you went to the doctor that day and the baby had a heartbeat there's really no way to determine what caused your miscarriage or if the baby had died prior to that.
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