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Lost My Husband - Pregnant With Another Mans Baby

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August 21st, 2012, 04:46 AM
Join Date: Aug 2012
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Hi I lost my husband and the father of my 3 boys in February 2009. I joined a support group for people who have lost a partner and who have children. In August 2011 a man who had lost his wife in July 2010 joined. We hit it off straight away, we both had all boys who were very young. Anyway, he started to come around to mine to do little jobs around the house and sometimes I would look after his kids. Anyway, we got on well, and 12 months later we are expecting our first baby. This was a HUGE shock, we weren't expecting to find love again never mind have another baby. I have very mixed feelings about the whole situation. I feel like I have betrayed my husband.

My new man doesn't live with me, we live 30 miles apart.
Charlotte (33) & Henry (37)
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August 24th, 2012, 10:07 AM
*Jennifer*'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: California
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First of all, I am so sorry about the loss of your husband.

I know if I passed away, I would want my husband to find someone to spend his life with. I would want him to be happy and go on with life.

You are not betraying your husband. You are continuing on with your life, which is how it should be.

Congrats on your pregnancy BTW!
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