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October 2nd, 2012, 08:43 AM
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Getting remarried at some point for whatever unforseen reason?

Before my dad died at a young age and my mom remarried, I used to think I could never do that. I could always envision dating or living with someone else, but not actually getting married.

Now that I am married, and life is incredibly different than it was back then, I think I could actually see myself marrying someone else again one day, if I found myself alone for some reason.
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October 2nd, 2012, 09:01 AM
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Well...Im faced with that idea and I can honestly say I have no intention of marrying again after DH passes.

I wont rule it out but its certainly not something Im gonna pursue or worry about. Raising our sons will be all that consumes me for a long time...Im pretty sure. So if love comes along again I wont tell it to shove off but Id certainly be shocked too(took me forever to find DH...I wasnt a dater).
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October 2nd, 2012, 09:16 AM
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with five little kids I think I'd be offically off the market if something happened to dh--don't think I'd ever marry again-I have my career and I can take care of them on my own

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October 2nd, 2012, 11:07 AM
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Honestly, I married late in life (I was 38, he was 41). I LOVE being married and I love DH with all my heart and soul. But if he left me or died, I honestly would not mind going back to the quiet and solitary life I had before. I mean, I would raise LO and enjoy parenting him, but I would not be in the market for another husband any time soon, lol.
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October 3rd, 2012, 02:34 PM
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I've been with DH since I was 18 so its very hard to imagine life without him. I think it would be very hard to see myself with someone else and serious enough to get married.
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October 3rd, 2012, 04:22 PM
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I've been with my husband since I was 18 and couldn't imagine my life without him. Sure he drives me crazy sometimes and I just want to scream, but honestly he is just agreat guy and I can't see myself having that kind of love and craziness for another man. If somethin happened I don't think I would completely not give love another chance but it would have to be when my kids told me they were ready for that. They come first!
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October 4th, 2012, 06:57 AM
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You know I'm not sure I would get married again, but I could see myself dating and seeing people.

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October 4th, 2012, 07:47 AM
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Honestly, I don't think I would, but again, I can't rule it out. I also have been with my husband since I was 18 (him 24) and I can't imagine my life without him. But I'm also realistic and know anything could happen.
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October 4th, 2012, 02:20 PM
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I have 5 daughters so I don't think anyone would even want to marry me, and I don't know how I'd feel about bringing a man into our all girl family.

You never know though, I wouldn't rule it out completely, you never know who crosses your path, but I'd definetly not pursue it.
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October 4th, 2012, 03:08 PM
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I really can't see myself marrying again, it's possible but not likely.

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October 4th, 2012, 03:11 PM
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No... I'd be too busy taking care of my 4 (or 5 by then) children to even attempt a relationship with someone. I hated planning my own wedding and marriage is really hard sometimes. It takes a lot of work. I don't see me ever getting remarried if DH and I ever got a divorce.
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