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May 8th, 2009, 07:33 PM
ShesaDreamer's Avatar If Only. If Only <3
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I just don't understand that woman....she can find ways to hurt me and not even know it....first I'll do background info I was due in August but lost our baby in January...I should have been 5 months pregnant on Mothers Day last year...but instead all I had was an Angel in heaven....

Well my MIL told me today that she sent me a mothers day card and this is what she said "After all you are a mom NOW." That cut me to the bone....I just wanted to tell her that I should have been a mom last year and that no matter what I have TWO kids not just one but TWO.

She annoys me so bad sometimes
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May 8th, 2009, 08:28 PM
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wow, that is rough. I am so sorry for your loss and sorry that she doesn't understand. Happy Mothers day to you for your two babies.

Pregnancy Loss April 2009, September 2010
CP 10/2008, 1/3/11 {missing my babies every single day}Mommy to 4 Children - 3 boys ages 22, 21 and 18 & baby Scarlett
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May 8th, 2009, 09:44 PM
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I'm sorry that your MIL hurt your feelings by saying something ignorant. You're right, you were a mommy as soon as you saw that first BFP.

I'll be thinking of you and your babies on Mother's Day. *HUGS*

P.S. Angelica is gorgeous

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May 9th, 2009, 07:10 AM
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How rude! Ignoring your loss would be bad enough, but to make rude comments like that just to hurt you is cruel.

Happy 2nd Mothers' Day
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May 9th, 2009, 01:37 PM
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that sucks.

Happy 2nd Mother's Day! I'm sure your little one in heaven agrees with all of us...you have TWO children!
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