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May 28th, 2009, 08:53 PM
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I ran into an old boss of mine (one I never cared much for) and she was asking about a friend of mine who is due any day now with her 3rd child (our due dates were 2 weeks apart from each other orginally)... after I went on about how she is and how she is just waiting for the baby to come she stops me and says "yeah, didn't you lose your baby?"

I just seriously had to stop talking and i looked at her like she was nuts... of all things to say to some one... I mean come on! If I want to bring it up I will.. and I didn't. Grrr... I swear the NERVE of some people.
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May 28th, 2009, 08:58 PM
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I really don't think that people realize how much their words hurt and sting. It doesn't make me want to smack them any less ....

I am sorry she was so dense and hurt you.

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May 28th, 2009, 10:08 PM
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Ppl never think before they say stuff. they just do it, that is why im only telling certin ppl about my loss, cause if i tell my b/f parents i do the words they will say.

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May 29th, 2009, 02:30 AM
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I'm sorry, that must have been hard.

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May 29th, 2009, 12:47 PM
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I would have smacked-a-witch!
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May 29th, 2009, 05:16 PM
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What the hell?

I'm sorry that she was so insensitive, honey.


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May 29th, 2009, 05:28 PM
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Oh that was so mean. So sorry people can be so insensitive.

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