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July 27th, 2012, 06:46 PM
Remembering Tadpole
Join Date: Jun 2012
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We just got home from picking up my 6 year old step son for our weekend visit. We were on vacation when I had to go by ambulance due to my m/c. We told him that God didn't think the baby was the right one for us. We could not think of any other explanation at the time. He did not want to talk about what had happened for the remainder of our time with him. Tonight my husband asked if he wanted to talk about it as he seemed stand offish and quiet, not his normal self. He responded no, and that his mom thought it was funny that I M/C. This woman is sick. My husband is steaming. How could she say this to her own son. He was so excited at the possibility of being a big brother....
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July 27th, 2012, 07:31 PM
Happy Song's Avatar Nicole
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I am so sorry for her insensitivity and her horrible treament of her own son.

She just doesn't realize that when she says stuff like that he personalizes it, he might as well have said, "I don't want you"

Last edited by Happy Song; July 27th, 2012 at 07:35 PM.
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July 29th, 2012, 05:01 PM
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I always hate when one parent says horrible things about the other. I know it might not seem like it now but when your step son is older he will remember and resent her for it. I know it's hard not to come back with something mean to say but trust me in the end that's what is best. This is the last thing you need to be dealing with right now

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