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January 2nd, 2013, 04:49 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
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I am from Aug DDC, found out today at the scan that the little fetus with the heartbeat I saw 2 weeks ago has detached and most probably already passed out in clots. I started bleeding 5 days ago and had to wait for a scan and those 5 days were awful.

I thought I had mentally prepared myself with the bleeding, the cramps and the clots but I am very upset and emotional. This was my first pregnancy and I never expected to mc....it has come as a shock we had announced it to family inclu a few outside immediate family I'm deeply saddened, everything I think of that scan where I saw the heartbeat I start crying again

What went wrong? Will it happen again? Was it bc I was stressed out with work and life and so my baby didn't survive? These are all going through my mind constantly...
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January 2nd, 2013, 05:07 PM
sweety_pie's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,823
So sorry for your loss!! HUGS! It definitely wasn't anything you did that caused this, but I'm sure we all have those kinda thoughts going through our heads after a loss. Thinking of you!

{Aug/07/201212 weeks} {Oct/29th/20127 weeks}
Forever missing my Mom...

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January 4th, 2013, 09:57 PM
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Location: Maryland
Posts: 226
Sara -

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I was also pregnant (was 12 weeks) and found out on Dec. 19 that my baby no longer had a heartbeat. I, too, went through all of the questioning myself. I googled everything I could looking for a reason, trying to find something wrong that I had done. But unfortunately these things happen through no fault of our own.

I had to have a d&c on Dec. 31, and I've just been heartbroken ever since. I know hiw hard it is. It was also my first pregnancy. If you ever need to talk, feel free to message me. I know it helped me more than anything just to have someone to talk to and have a shoulder to cry on.
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