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March 20th, 2012, 11:29 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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I don't want to take Zoe out of the house or put her in her own bed because I am afraid someone is going to take her or hurt her. I am always thinking about all the bad things that can happen. I drive myself crazy thinking about it all, it almost consumes me. What the heck is wrong with me?!

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March 20th, 2012, 12:18 PM
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You're a mom. that's what's wrong with you. Being a mom who's lost babies makes the feelings even worse.

But you DO take her out, and not putting her in her own bed isn't a big deal. when it gets to the point you don't take her out anymore, that's when you should look into getting someone to talk to.

She's gonna be a good age this summer, you'll want to have her out in a lil splash pool just to see the cuteness.
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March 20th, 2012, 04:05 PM
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You may want to find someone to talk to. It is pretty normal to have those thoughts but if it gets to be all consuming, it is too hard on you as the mom. Marsi sleeps in a pack and play right next to my side of the bed. I don't see any time that I will transfer her to her own room in the foreseeable future. When we walk in the park I am super vigilant and have those fears as well. This isn't that you are crazy, it is that you love little Zoe and want to keep her as protected as possible.

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March 21st, 2012, 11:43 AM
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Thanks ladies

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March 21st, 2012, 03:42 PM
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