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February 10th, 2012, 01:49 PM
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So...with my PCOS and weird cycles as always, DH and I have been just NTNP. We use the good old "pull and pray" method. I know. Anyways, it worked for us for years before we decided to start TTC, so we haven't been worrying about it. Now, I haven't had AF since before the new year...(which with PCOS of course is not odd) So I wasn't really thinking about it. (and most of you remember that I used to have overly long cycles...having my body gear up to O several times some time.)

Well, I haven't really been thinking anything of it this time, until yesterday when my boobs started to hurt. I mean like REALLY hurt, I was like OMG...maybe I should test, maybe I am PG, and even though we aren't trying, and to be honest with you, would prefer not to try for another half a year or so, but whatever, it's not a big deal. So was like, well, I'll test, and see, cause DH and I are going out on Saturday, and I will probably want a drink. So I go to Superstore, I take the test last night, and it's a

So now I'm torn, because as much as we aren't ready to start TTC right now, I found myself totally disappointed. So my question is, do we continue to NTNP, or do we start trying? I haven't talked to DH yet, and he has no idea I took a test. He would be upset, cause they are expensive, but I needed to know. Anyway, what would you do?

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February 10th, 2012, 05:10 PM
jensma's Avatar Katie: mommy to Ty & Em
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if it were me i'd drop the PNP and just ntnp...as in don't intentionally time it, just do it when you feel like it. then in a few more months go on with ttc. Of course you can always talk to Kelly and see if he's up for going for it now...i like that idea too!

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February 10th, 2012, 07:01 PM
JustLiz's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am with you. I feel like I really *should* wait to TTC for another 6 months because I am doing a one-year fellowship starting in July, so it would be better if I waited to get pregnant again, but I also wanted the los to be closer to 2 years apart than 3 years, so I kind of want to try again now. Also since it took so long last time, I don't want to wait and then wind up having to wait longer for fertility treatments. So I think I'll be ntnp after Des turns 1. Good luck either way! At least it's so much nicer than TTC#1 because it'll be good either way.

Thank you Vicki!

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