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  #1  
May 30th, 2007, 07:13 AM
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I can't decide lol He had his dad and brother down all Memorial weekend, so I feel like I barely saw him. He asked me last night if today he could go to a baseball game with some guys from work, it's from like 7-10pm or something. On the one hand, I want him home b/c I miss him, I feel like I haven't seen him in a week. On the other hand, I feel crappy from this ear infection/vertigo, and I know I'll end up just hanging around in bed all evening. Though, help with Jules and someone to cuddle with and watch a movie would be nice, but not imperative.

Would you tell him to go, or stay home? He's totally on the fence as well, he doesn't care either way lol
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May 30th, 2007, 07:19 AM
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Depends..

Right now, if I had to choose, I'd say stay home. Not because I'm being selfish, but I've worked out in the sun all weekend [Sat to yesterday] and am working [indoors thankfully] the rest of the week. And Hailey is off routine, and waking more at night, I'd love a few hours to just lay in bed and rest/sleep. But if this where like a once in a lifetime game, I'd say go.
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May 30th, 2007, 07:25 AM
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I would most definitely let him go if it were my Dh!

My Dh works very hard and rarely takes time for himself. Even if my Dh had been gone all weekend, I would let him go to the baseball game, because it wouldn't be the norm. If he were the type of guy to always be running around without all four of us, I may feel differently.
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May 30th, 2007, 07:40 AM
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If it were a normal day, I would let him go. But, since you aren't feeling well, I would ask him to stay and help with your DD.
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May 30th, 2007, 07:45 AM
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I'd leave it up to him. But if he wanted to go, I'd let him. I tend to save the "please stay home and help me" stuff for when I really feel horrible. I know if I was invited to go out with friends and DH had an ear infection/vertigo, I'd still want to go - but I'd stay home with him if it was something like a stomach flu where he really couldn't take care of the kids.
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May 30th, 2007, 07:48 AM
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Oh for goodness sakes...

Sorry guys, I could have sworn I posted this in my Playroom LMAO
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May 30th, 2007, 07:49 AM
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lol lol lol!!!!!
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May 30th, 2007, 08:09 AM
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! Whoooops.

I'd totally let my DH go, though.
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May 30th, 2007, 11:51 AM
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I'd have to say let him go unless you feel really poorly. I let DH go out with the guys Saturday night and it was actually good for me. He came home more relaxed and he was quite a bit more helpful over the long weekend.
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May 30th, 2007, 11:52 AM
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Let him go and you and your baby girl can have a jammie party!!! we do those (my dh, bil, sister and our daughters) ALL the time! We rent movies and crowd around in my sisters living room and let the girls play. It's so much fun.
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May 30th, 2007, 12:47 PM
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I'd say go.. but if he stayed, I'd totally DTD!
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May 30th, 2007, 01:36 PM
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I'd tell him to go...
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May 30th, 2007, 03:04 PM
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Ugh, you know I'm always trying to get rid of Chandler lol!!!
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May 30th, 2007, 03:18 PM
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Let him go? He is an adult right?


I am kidding, I know what you mean but letting him go make it sounds like he is a child or something but I know how you meant it. Being honest here, no I would not want him to go but it would be his decision to make, if he was on the fence I would give him a nudge in my direction
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May 30th, 2007, 03:32 PM
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lol! I know how bad that sounds. By "let him go" I meant, "won't be a ###### when he comes home" lol I'm so passive aggressive DH is the one who started all of this, he came up to me and said (I'm quoting) "CAN I go to the baseball game?"

We made a compromise, he'll stay home tonight because I don't feel well, but Saturday afternoon he'll go to Busch Gardens with his cronies (had to use it) from work. I hate rides so that works out well.
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May 30th, 2007, 05:41 PM
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I would have asked that he stay home, but that's just me. It's good that he compromised with you, what a good guy Was it an O's or Nationals game?
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May 31st, 2007, 11:56 AM
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We made a compromise, he'll stay home tonight because I don't feel well, but Saturday afternoon he'll go to Busch Gardens with his cronies (had to use it) from work. I hate rides so that works out well.[/b]
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May 31st, 2007, 12:29 PM
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We made a compromise, he'll stay home tonight because I don't feel well, but Saturday afternoon he'll go to Busch Gardens with his cronies (had to use it) from work. I hate rides so that works out well.[/b]
NICE! HIGH FIVE! MAKING THE SEXY TIME...
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Thank goodness Dh and I aren't the only ones to go around the house saying this!!!
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May 31st, 2007, 01:41 PM
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I would let him go. Have a girl night in with some girlfriends or a girls night out. We do something like this here. Tonight im going out with my girlfriends and tommorow night he will be going out because he works in the early mornign so we each get a night out on our own during the week then we both go out together on saturday night.
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May 31st, 2007, 01:42 PM
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We made a compromise, he'll stay home tonight because I don't feel well, but Saturday afternoon he'll go to Busch Gardens with his cronies (had to use it) from work. I hate rides so that works out well.[/b]
NICE! HIGH FIVE! MAKING THE SEXY TIME...
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Thank goodness Dh and I aren't the only ones to go around the house saying this!!!
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I was so worried no one would catch that!
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