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November 17th, 2011, 05:13 PM
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please share what you ate before you conieved your daugther and anything else you can remember that might help like timing etc

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November 17th, 2011, 05:25 PM
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when i conieved my daugther i never ate breakfast i didn't have time, didn't snack either didn't have time, lunch was always a roll or sandwich and crisps, tea would be something quick like omlette or chicken burger. i only ate chicken. never drank milk never ate cheese. ate loads yogurts, didn't drink tea/coffee. rarely drank coke. i was slim and always on adiet.

timing i have no idea. i do know we bd alot and i the day we conieve our daugther we bd 13 times that day. i know this was the time cause we was using condoms and we ran out. we stayed in bed all day lol.

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November 17th, 2011, 07:23 PM
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13 x! ; )

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November 17th, 2011, 11:39 PM
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13? lol thats an awful lot of times in one day .. but good to know that what i did is exactly like you

except for the 13 times hehe we done it 7 times in 6 days tho lol
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November 19th, 2011, 07:03 AM
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lol we hadn't been together long and it was spread over the day. we only counted cause once we had got past 5 we was laughing about it.

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November 21st, 2011, 12:16 PM
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Although I wasn't swaying I remember that I ate a lot of yogurt and other dairy products

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November 25th, 2011, 11:51 PM
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I am a BIGTIME Diet Coke drinker and I heard that can really pull girl. We also got pregnant from sex 6 days before O! Attempting that way though, it could take years to GET pregnant,

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December 2nd, 2011, 09:06 PM
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I don't recall eating any differently in either 3 of my pregnancies.

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January 16th, 2012, 03:38 PM
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I wasn't swaying but both times we had girls we bd 3 days before "o" day and not again until 3 days later. I don't do dairy though or drink diet coke. But like someone already said... doing it 3 days before you ovulate could take a while to get pregnant in the first place!

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April 14th, 2012, 01:57 PM
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My first girl was a surprise and we DTD 5 days before O. I eat a lot of carbs and diet coke.

My second girl we were NTNP and I was eating some what healthier. We just DTD all the time and I still got a girl.

My theory is that DH has super sperm that live longer than average lol. When we were NTNP and doing it all the time, the girl sperm were up there waiting!
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April 24th, 2012, 09:10 PM
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We completely missed ovulation day. We had sex before I O'd never on the O day or after. 3 days in a row day 13,14,15 ovulated on 16 and had a baby girl

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May 28th, 2012, 08:05 PM
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I have one girl and I don't remember what I ate probably pretty much what I eat now but with a bit more spicy food as my ex was Hispanic and his family cooked spicy. I do know that we conceived our dd the first time we made love and it was exactly 1 day after my period. So that is what we shall try this time because I would love another girl being the mother of 1 girl and 2 boys. I doubt I will change my diet much. I also plan on BDing every other day until I get a pos.
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May 28th, 2012, 08:35 PM
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With my girls, I was a huge icecream eater!! My boys I was put off of dairy at the time and sweets in general as I worked the desserts at Ryans. I did eat alot of meat...the smell of steak (plus at half price) had me eating a ton of red meat!! I just found out I'm pregnant and won't know for awhile. I have eaten a ton of blizzards and not much red meat as my daughter is now a vegetarian so have been eating like her. My 1 DD we BD ALOT too....

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January 17th, 2013, 06:11 PM
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With my boys (I have 5 boys) I O'd every single time, there was deep penetration at the time of ejaculation, and I did not jump right up out of bed (jump and dump)

With my ONLY girl, I did NOT O, we bd in the "doggy style" position (sorry if TMI, but you asked ) and I had dh pull almost all the way out and literally just have like the very tip of him in me when he went off. The I jumped up and lots fell out.

Got my girl.

All times I have gotten pg have been during ovulation or very close to. I do not seem to get pregnant if I try to time it for 2-3 days before then abstain, so getting a girl that way wasn't going to work for me. I wasn't getting any baby at all that way. So I did it this way and it worked!
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January 19th, 2013, 05:28 AM
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I didn't eat any different with my boys or my girl. But timing of BD was different. Both of my boys we BDed on ovulation day, but with my girl we totally avoided ovulation day. And I very much know when I ovulate.

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January 20th, 2013, 11:32 AM
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We weren't swaying either way, we were basically just having fun and weren't trying to get pregnant (we were in the process of trying to get on the Walter Reed IVF list!). We had sex CD 9 and CD 14 and on CD 23 found out I was pregnant. My OB and I believe I ovulated early (although we won't know for sure which day cause I wasn't tracking) but we DTD at night both times and I would get up and go to the bathroom afterwards.

As far as what I ate, I ate a lot of chicken, had a cup of coffee every morning. Other than those two things, I honestly don't quite remember. I ate a variety of different stuff.
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February 28th, 2013, 06:10 PM
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DTD 7+ days before Ov and every day through Ov.
Don't orgasm during sex.
Husband hot shower.
Husband weird briefs not boxers.
Keep PH low.
conceive closer to the New Moon than a Full Moon.
Use Ions. (fans, rock salt lamps, ion bracelet)
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