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September 28th, 2009, 02:50 PM
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: NJ
Posts: 60
my husband's ******* aunt just announced she is pregnant (again).
guess when she's due? may, just like me.
this is her 3rd pregnancy, 2nd child. she aborted the last one cuz her marriage is messed up and they almost filed bankruptcy. like you should be able to choose which children you keep and which ones should die. i've had 3 children die in the last year, not voluntarily but painfully ripped from my body. nice guys always finish last; we try to do everything right, be prepared, have a good relationship, financially sound etc. and all we do is get screwed. also, i'm a twin. i've had to share everything my whole life and now that it feels like i may actually have a successful pregnancy, i get to "share" every waking moment being compared to her and having to share this experience. i feel cursed now, like there is no chance my pg could end well and i'll be left watching everyone else get what they want and being happy. i am out of my mind furious.

BFP 9/4/09 - Michael John born 5/5/10
ectopic w/tube closure 3/24/09, 8w0d
2nd m/c 12/27/08, 5w2d
1st m/c 10/12/08, 4w6d

Last edited by Misty_X; September 28th, 2009 at 03:59 PM.
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September 28th, 2009, 04:44 PM
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(((HUGS))) I am SO sorry that has happened!! Your right, that is not fair at all and it will be hard to keep the joy of your separated from that side of the family. Don't let your anger though take away from the joy in your pregnancy. Just try your best to ignore her and block her out of your mind like she doesn't even exist. Enjoy your pregnancy!!! I wish the best for you!!!!
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