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October 12th, 2004, 04:16 PM
Heavenly's Avatar Super Mommy
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Sorry to vent on my 1st day here.
I'm getting married in 3 weeks and 3 days.
(even have a ticker that says so )
Why can't people send their RSVP's back ??????

It has a stamp on it. We are trying to figure out how many tables,
how much food etc, very hard when people don't RSVP !!

again, I'm so sorry to vent.
I'm just stressing.

I start to stress, then start to feel better.
but the mail just came and I thought w/ no mail
yesterday there would be at least 1 RSVP !!

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October 12th, 2004, 04:17 PM
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People are so rude! How can you plan anything without knowing how many people are coming. That would burn my #####
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October 12th, 2004, 04:26 PM
Heavenly's Avatar Super Mommy
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We do have a date to send them back by * 23rd.*
Most of the people invited are his family and co-workers.

The co-workers are all guys.
so you know what that means - the invitations are still in their cars !

As for family, they think why RSVP - they are family.
My friends have rsvped.

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October 12th, 2004, 04:27 PM
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I am sorry your having a hard time right now, I really hope you start getting your RSVP's. I also would be ticked! please let us know when you start getting them, I will be thinking about you! Good Luck!
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October 12th, 2004, 06:02 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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That is so rude! I'd probably start calling people. Grrrrr.

Hope they start coming in soon!
Proud mom to my little kookaburra, Alden (03/02). #2 due 06/16/05

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October 12th, 2004, 06:06 PM
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That is frustrating!! We sent over 300 invites when we got married and over 50 people never sent back their reply cards!!!

We also had people RSVP and no-show....GRRR!!!
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October 12th, 2004, 08:29 PM
dejasmommy143's Avatar Super Mommy
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oh my mom had the same problem she had made a speech and had to call everyone to ask if they were coming or not . In her speech or whatever she just said you know i need a head count for the food, etc please let me know how many are in your party. i know it is a pain in the butt, people are so rude. Good luck.

and welcome!!!

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October 12th, 2004, 09:38 PM
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and to waste those stamps. that has to be aggervating. hang in there. wedding planning is stressful. the planning will all be over soon. on another note my family doesnt RSVP either. they just expect me to know if they are coming or not. it annoys me too.

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October 12th, 2004, 09:50 PM
Stephanee's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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sorry about the RSVP's....


new or not we are here for you
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October 13th, 2004, 11:17 AM
Heavenly's Avatar Super Mommy
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Thanks for the support.
My (future) sil told me when she was planning her daughters
Quincetta (sp?) Hardly anyone in the Family RSVPed.
Her sil called & said, 'well you have only me & your brother on the invitation.
Are the kids invited too. (the 'kids' are in their 20's) My sil said of course they are.
She then made sure there was enough food to include them. The kids didn't show up.

I'm the type of person who needs to be in control.
Not in a bad way. I just like to know certain things.
Such as how many people, making sure there's enough food & tables etc.
I have no control here, which is driving me crazy.

My other sil, will either not show up, or show up w/ a ton of people.
Her grandchildren, their dates etc.

And .... my 'love' will not try on his clothes !
MEN !! He says " what ? they will fit"

Right now I've rolled my eyes so much, I'm always dizzy.
Excederian migraine & midol are my best friends.

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October 13th, 2004, 08:12 PM
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People suck! That's why I had a small, private wedding! I say give them til the 23rd and if you don't hear from them, call the people who have not RSVP'd and say, "well we never got your RSVP, so I wanted to call you and let you know that ___(fiance)___ and I are so sad you aren't going to make the wedding" and wait for them to make their :bs: excuse and then mark them down for yay or nay.

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October 14th, 2004, 02:38 PM
Heavenly's Avatar Super Mommy
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MEN !!!

We recieved an RSVP from his BOSS

he checkes Love to be there with you
where is says # of guests he writes in 0

ummm.... so is he or isn't he ?? :thinking2:

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October 18th, 2004, 01:50 PM
in_mommy's Avatar I am just me
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You could always hire a bouncer and everyone who RSVP'd would be one the list and if your not on the list then hey your not on the list and you dont get in!

Hang in there!! Come and vent anytime!!!
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