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January 19th, 2011, 12:35 PM
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I havent been on for awhile due to my hubs being deployed. Well yesterday was just a really emotional day for me. We have been trying to get pregnant for over a year and with my hubs deployments and training scheadule it hasnt happened. I got a call from my mom yesterday telling me that my sister is 10 wks prego with TWINS. She wasnt trying and didnt want anymore (has two already). I over reacted and had a fit when i hung up with my mom. I feel bad now for being so jealous but i just felt like it should of been ME. I know everything happens for a reason but i feel like its never going to "happen" for us. Anyone else feel like this? and i swear if one more person says" it will happen when you stop trying " im going to scream.
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January 19th, 2011, 12:56 PM
MummyTo2Boys&1Girl's Avatar Loving my baby boy
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i totally know how you feel, i have just heard my friends sister is pregnant, she has just turned 18, already has a 11 months old son, both are by different men and this 1 is by a guy who she met on a night out and slept with a few times

im so mad more than anything, how come kids can get pregnant just like that and all us wonderful ladies would do anything for a baby

Jack Anthony Richard White

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January 19th, 2011, 01:15 PM
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I totally know how you feel. My sister got pg a while back (miscarried but she DID conceive) while on birth control! Are you serious? And here I am almost 3 years later and haven't even ever seen a BFP that wasn't the result of a trigger shot. It really sucks.

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January 19th, 2011, 01:51 PM
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" it will happen when you stop trying "

I cannot stand it when someone says that to us!!! My inlaws kept on saying that to us, and one day DH got sooo mad he lashed out at his dad telling him we've tried that and it didn't work! He told him how we were seeing a doctor and my hormone levels were not right. He was like "how is that going to help dad???" He was pissed!!! The sad thing about it is they still haven't given up I have to hear it everytime I see them or talk on the phone, "when are you going to give me a grandchild?"

I can totally relate girl! Hang in there!

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January 19th, 2011, 03:29 PM
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People say such DUMB things about infertility.
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January 19th, 2011, 04:27 PM
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So sorry And me too, I've heard it all...

TTC since August 2008

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January 19th, 2011, 05:22 PM
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Ditto, here.........

TTC #1 since August 2009

DH=42.......SA's off the charts!!!
One year on our own=BFNs
Clomid+BDing (4 months)=BFNs
IUI #1 Feb. 2011=BFN
IUI #2 Apr. 2011=BFN
1st RE appt.=May 2011
1st IVF cycle June/July=delayed due to OHSS concern
10 Snowbabies!!!!!!!
1st FET Oct. 2011=BFP!!!!!!
Beta #1=1,398
Beta #2=8,032
Beta #3=14,955
11/10/11=1st u/s
WOW, two babies.........
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