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January 3rd, 2014, 08:27 PM
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So my DH and I are TTC. I got a positive ovulation result and so therefore you go do the baby dance. However, apparently my DH has some stage fright
I don't know what to do. Seriously never a problem any other time and I mean this has never happened. The first time after the ovulation kit it happened and I thought it was a fluke the second time I was concerned. I'm trying to act like it isn't a big deal towards him because I don't want to upset him, but of course its a bit important to "the goal"
He is obviously frustrated with himself.
I'm not sure if I should not tell him next time I get a positive ovulation and see if he is just getting nervous or anxious or what I should do.
He is aware that we are TTC. We have done IVF and he was totally on board never even having an issue "putting his stuff in a cup" as he would say. We recently were put in a study and it has allowed me to ovulate with some aids of medications (which it allows us to do timed intercourse rather than spending the money on more invasive procedures) so time is slightly of the essence.

I even feared he wasn't attracted to me, of course I did not say that to him at all because I already know how that conversation will go...

Has anyone else had anything similar?

What do I do?

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January 3rd, 2014, 08:50 PM
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Just don't tell him.
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January 4th, 2014, 12:05 AM
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Don't tell him. Get yourself into some sexy lingerie and pretend the only reason you want sex is because you're so hot for HIM. Good luck!
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January 4th, 2014, 12:32 PM
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Thanks just needed some reassurance to not tell him... I guess I felt as if I wasn't being up-front enough if I didn't tell him.
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February 20th, 2014, 01:53 PM
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Totally agree, just don't tell him! My hubs has the same problem and now I don't say anything and we haven't had an issue since.
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