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February 2nd, 2007, 10:00 PM
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that whenever i'm using dh as a vent he has to go and say something stupid that pisses me off? we got in a fight over the phone. well, it wasn't really a fight. he said something and i hung up.

my mil has been being a grouch all night long and i needed to vent a little bit and he called me so i kinda just started venting at him and then i realised what i was doing and said

"sorry i shouldn't have been worrying you with things like that" and he goes

"no, you really shouldn't have".

i was so pissed i was like "well, why odn't u just go to bed then? i'll talk to you tomorrow" and hung up. argh why does he HAVE TO BE so freaking difficult while he's away. i KNOW he's tired and warn out from the hell he's been going through, but that doens't mean he has to aggravate me.

I'M PREGNANT FOR GOODNESS SAKES. everything pisses me off. BAH
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February 2nd, 2007, 11:25 PM
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i was angry and now i'm just depressed. i miss him so much. i just wanna die. it's so long before he comes back. normally i live for his call at around 6 but tonight i totally forgot about it.

i'm a horrible military wife!!!
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February 3rd, 2007, 08:36 AM
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Ummm yep. DH is the SAME way. It puts him in a bad mood when I complain about someone/something.

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February 3rd, 2007, 08:42 AM
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i'm a horrible military wife!!![/b]

No your not!! Your just human and we cant all be perfect all the time. I totally understand how you feel. But instead of venting, I always just blank out when he calls, lol. I hope the time starts going faster for you!!
~Jen wife to Jay and mommy to a bunch!

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February 3rd, 2007, 04:11 PM
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Ectopic Pregnancy 01/30/06. One tube wonder!
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February 3rd, 2007, 09:14 PM
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Its the ramblings of hormones and I"d make sure to reiterate that with him. Most guys just don't get it and they get frustrated bc we're frustrated.
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February 3rd, 2007, 10:32 PM
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Big Hugs!!!

It takes time to get the flow of that kind of stuff. DH use to get mad at me for the same thing. And I had to explain that I just need to yell these things out and its not directed towards him. After awhile, he has gotten use to it. And teases that when I get pregnant he is shipping me home to my mother so she can deal with the mood swings and hormones!
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