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August 14th, 2009, 12:21 PM
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Im going to hurt him. Seriously, majorly HURT HIM!!! Theres not even an anger icon to show how mad I am.

Background. So yall know Im married to loser Brandon, whose in the military. I had Tricare insurance..well I found out back in June that I HADNT had insurance since Janurary..basically the entire pregnancy. Bigggg stress (I blame my first bout of preterm labor on that)..Brandon had been lying the entire time to me. Claiming he was paying for it and everything was taken care of, stupid me to believe him.

Sooo I found that out and told him straight up I wanted ALL bills that I had that he was "claiming" to pay for. He gave me 4 friggin bills. FOUR! He claimed this entire pregnancy that he was paying out the arse for my medical which was a lie. I had 2 $275 dollar ultrasound bills (that werent covered by insurance but he claimed he had payed cash to pay them off) that was a LIE I got the bill for them last week telling me they were going to collection!!! And then there were 2 other $50 bills that were for blood work. His MOM told me that she had payed for them via money order but that she couldnt find the recipt. Whateve. Dumb me again believed his mom even.

I just got the collection bill for both blood work. If they had just been up front with me about the stupid bills I wouldnt have to stress out about this crap! Its such BS!! I mean come on were old enough to act mature enough..

Well I just went off on him. I probably shouldnt have but this last month they have made me sooooo mad! First his mom wants to be "friends" again but I know thats only cuz Kennedi will be here soon and Im not gonna let myself be used like that. Esp since she hasnt ONCE called me this entire pregnancy, or better yet even texted me! Then I see loser Brandon and some girl holding hands in the mall and he didnt even say a dang word to me..but has the nerve to text me hours later asking where I have the money to go shopping in Victorias Secret..which is funny cuz Im friggin 9 months pregnant, like I can fit into anything in there! AHHHHHHHH! And now this!

And the loser actually thinks he has a right to be there when his baby is born. UMMMM NO! Ill call him the next day but Im bonding with my daughter before I start with his BS! AHHHHHH!

Thanks for reading, vent over. But seriously I might just hurt him!
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August 14th, 2009, 12:35 PM
HopeWishWait's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Ugh! I'm so sorry Nikki, you totally don't need this crap right now! What a jerk.

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August 14th, 2009, 12:39 PM
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Wow. Seriously? He has quite the nerve! I don't blame you. Enjoy the time with your daughter when she comes! She is going to be lucky to have such an amazing mom!

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August 14th, 2009, 12:39 PM
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I want to hurt him for you....
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August 14th, 2009, 12:45 PM
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blah Im sooooo sorry you have to go through this!! what a jerk! Are you for sure when you go into labor he cant find out???
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August 14th, 2009, 12:50 PM
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I'm sorry Nikki, he sounds like a real jerk. That is total BS about him lying about the insurance and bills, I'd be fuming over that!

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August 14th, 2009, 12:56 PM
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So...let me get this right...your HUSBAND was holding hands with ANOTHER woman??? Oh hell no!! Plus, he and his mother lied to you!!!!!
Where do you live? I'll come and hand him his *****!!!
I am so sorry you are going through this, I cant wait until Kennedi is here....you will be such a wonderful Mommy!!

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August 14th, 2009, 01:01 PM
A*LOT*OF*HOPE's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Tell him to go F*ck a stick if he thinks he can be there when YOUR daughter is born. After all he has done to you....from the beginning?? Im about to come down there and kick his A**!!!
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August 14th, 2009, 01:02 PM
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Wow, was a crappy family! I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I'm freakin mad for you!!

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August 14th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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I hate Brandon, Nikki! I always have ever since the first time he did some crazy stuff to you. I hate that you have to deal with him, and are stuck with him the rest of your life because of Kennadi (well, not stuck with him but you know what i mean, youll always have a connection with him because of her and he'll always be in your life because of her) but he did give you that one precious gift! I wish he would just do the right thing for once! I hope he doesnt know when you go into labor so that you can have some time with her alone, then you can call him the next day. I cant believe he lied to you about paying those bills! What an a.s.s.!
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August 14th, 2009, 01:21 PM
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That is total BS! I'm sorry you have to "deal" with him and his mom.
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August 14th, 2009, 03:08 PM
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Thanks girls, hes so dumb all he had to do was tell me that he couldnt take care of it..which is BS since he hasnt given me ANY support what so ever this entire pregnancy..but wahteve I dont want anything from him anyway!!! UHHHHH its just annoying that I have to find out the information I SHOULD know the way I do!

Your right Ash, it truly does suck that I am basically stuck to him for the rest of my life..but he did give me Kennedi..
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August 14th, 2009, 03:09 PM
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And even if he does by some reason or another find out Im in labor and comes to the hospital the nurses are all going to be aware that he is NOT to be there until Im ready and he can eiether wait in the waiting room for hours until Im ready to share MY daughter or he can be escorted out of L&D.
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August 14th, 2009, 03:25 PM
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Do we need to assemble a WTTC van and go up there and beat him?
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August 14th, 2009, 03:26 PM
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That is so selfish. What did he think he was going to achieve by lying to you?! What a jerk.
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August 14th, 2009, 03:46 PM
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Can't you tell the hossy that he is not allowed there at all? That's what I would do... I think it is called Persona non grata or something like that- basically he isn't allowed anywhere near you during labor and delivery and your hossy stay. I wouldn't allow him in the hossy- he can come see Kennedi at your home when you are feeling better. He is an A-hole, and hasn't been supportive since DAY ONE. SCREW HIM. DH did some of this same stuff with me, and I know how it hurts.

I am so MAD for you! Can I beat him up?! Castrate him?! SOMETHING?!


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August 14th, 2009, 04:46 PM
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Yall are more than welcome to have your way with him! Id join but I dont think that would look good when we go for custody!!

Lauren I could do that. But Im going to invite him up to meet Kennedi for 5 minutes and then tell him to leave. That way at the hossy I have security and its on MY terms..at my house itll still be on my terms but we wont have fast acting security..well have police that take 30 minutes to get to a call..

But hes not invited up while Im in labor. My mom probably wont call him until the day after she comes..cuz I really dont want to see him. And even when he comes Ive decided that Im telling him her name, her birth time, birth weight and length and thats all he deserves for me to tell him. Nothing else. But I WILL be taken pics of them together as proof that I allowed him to be up there when I didnt have to!
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August 14th, 2009, 06:24 PM
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I always thought you could file complaints to the military about unfit parents and they would do something...not sure where I got that idea from.

Kennedi's dad is a jerk! You're sure being a lot more civil that I would have been because if you don't care for your child then for me, I would cut the ties then and there. But kudos to you for at least still allowing him to be there and kudos to you for still TALKING to him.

I so hate that you have to interact with him.

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August 14th, 2009, 06:32 PM
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Samantha I'm with you... We need to get in a van and come and whoop dat as$!!!!! He got some friggin nerve! He aint do crap for Kennedi besides donate his sperm.... He aint even have the decency to pay the friggin bills!!!

Will you be covered when you go into labor?
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August 14th, 2009, 07:29 PM
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I'm so sorry you have to deal with all his crap! It's horrible that he's treating you like this!! We will all come and kick his butt for you!! He won't know what to do when he sees all us JM girls coming at him! LOL. I thinks it's perfectly understandable for you to not want him around the day Kennedi is born. BTW have i told you how adorable i think her name is?

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