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October 31st, 2009, 02:48 PM
Super Mommy
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ok..soooo this weekend we have 4kids... that is fine by me...but you might think im nuts...
we are looking after SO's sons brothers for the week... yes his ex's kids. they are 4 and 4months. His ex called us and asked us if we could take them because she is sick and not allowed to take care of them alone.. so of course i said yes...a whole week with a baby who wouldnt say yes

I dont think id be so crazy but she sent dirty clothes for me to wash cuz she doesnt have the money she said... had to get the 4yr old boots that fit and a halloween costume, some clothes that fit the baby and will probably have to buy diapers too.
And to top it all off they are all sick..yay

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November 1st, 2009, 10:41 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS girl.....

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November 1st, 2009, 01:22 PM
Ellemphriem's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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he he he i think you ARE crazy as a matter of fact. I have one hyperactive toddler and she is more than a handful. I mean i am amazed and filled with wonder at all you women who juggle more than one child 24/7.....! I mean i cannot do it. My only one is killing me .......LOL.....My DSD when she comes over is another helping hand for me what can i say more than patience? ...............hehehe

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November 2nd, 2009, 11:03 AM
Super Mommy
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ok thinking i am very crazy ... thats for sure...
SO's ex called last night at 9pm totally loaded and asked us to bring them home...ummmm i dont think so u r drunk lady and we are looking after them because u are sick. besides they are sleeping!!
they are supposed to go to court today for joint over SO's son... she's not there because shes sick..she asked SO to rescheduel..but he's not because he has taken time off work to be here for court..he cant do that all the time...its not his fault she;s sick.. she did that to herself.
She told us at 11pm last night..her 3rd call and told us we can keep them til after court today..now what happens? she's sick..the kids are sick.. do i really take them back??
sooo frustrated right now

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November 2nd, 2009, 12:35 PM
Daisyfields's Avatar Platinum Super Mega Mommy
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I do not think you are crazy, I think you are a nice person & care. That's something a lot of people wouldn't think to do. I know my DS' step-mother has been nice like that & offered to me too, she doesn't anymore cause of the twins, but she's still offered to help us when I go into surgery.

You're a good person, that's what it says, no crazy.

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November 2nd, 2009, 03:11 PM
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I agree with Chantelle! You are a good person.

I think I'd be mad though that she went & got drunk.... Sounds like she's taking advantage. But on the other hand, the kids are better off with you.

My 2 miracles: Lucinda & Noah
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November 2nd, 2009, 10:31 PM
Super Mommy
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You're doing what's best for the kids and are to be commended for that. Just keep that in mind. I agree with the drunk stuff. I've been there as a kid and you were right to keep them.
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