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May 15th, 2010, 09:21 AM
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So Dh drove the 4 hours yesterday to see his dd's dance recital. He had a brief but interesting conversation with his ex. She is having troubles with her husband (big surprise) and they might be getting a divorce.

This helps to explain even more why dh's youngest (11) is having issues at home. If they divorce this will be the 2nd divorce this child has been through in 6 years. Way too much to handle IMO. But that's life.

Not sure what that brings for us. Hopefully we can still get the youngest for at least the summer - we're working on forever but.... If ex divorces, she'll want (not need) the child support more than ever. I say want not need because she has a Master's degree in psychology and can make more working part time than I can make working full-time.

Also wondering if she's going to try to get Dh back. She's the type that can't live without a man

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May 15th, 2010, 02:27 PM
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Well surely Dh isn't dumb enough to take her back. lol I thought that about my BF's ex when she called him crying one night at like 4 am because her current BF had dumped her. Luckily she has found another victim and married him a couple months after their divorce was completely final. Just never know what those crazy exes are gonna do sometimes.

Maybe she'll be too devastated about the newest divorce to handle the kids so you will get to have them more and that forever may be more of a reality than just a dream.... (I'm trying to be more of an optimist lately )
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May 16th, 2010, 06:02 AM
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Kris, isn't it amazing how much gall these women can have? LOL Hopefully you'll get your time with the youngest and perhaps the older one will defrost a little toward you when she sees that mom is relying on you both to help.
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May 16th, 2010, 07:28 AM
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I'm hoping we'll get the youngest one permanently. We will never get the oldest one as she isn't dh's bio child. Legal child yes but not bio. (long story) Which is good because quite honestly, I'll be fine if I never see that one again!

Dh will never go back to her but she could drive us nuts! lol

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