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January 20th, 2011, 07:30 AM
CassCramer's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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My ex is not very involved with our son. He hasn't seen him since April of last year, and is the type to brag and act like he's this amazing dad. He would never just disappear, ESPECIALLY with me getting married. SO and I are getting married May 29th (he'll become Xander's stepdad, but doesn't have any kids of his own), do any of you BTDT moms have any advice to save me some headaches? I know they'll be wanting us to spend at least a week each summer visiting, because I won't let Xander go for the whole summer until he's schoolage - he's too young to be away from me for 2 months, and his dad and stepmom are pretty much strangers to him right now.

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January 20th, 2011, 10:13 AM
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Communication is the only advice I can give you. You have to try your hardest to keep the lines of communication open as drama free as possible.

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January 20th, 2011, 02:31 PM
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Whatever you do, do it legally. You can work out an agreement but unless it's set in stone by court order, neither of you have to stick to it. That's my best advice.
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