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April 20th, 2011, 11:26 AM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2009
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well my ex husband came up from NYC to our place in alberta canada this past weekend, for my daughters birthday.
Me being the slightly insane one, felt bad because it cost alot to come up here, so i offered him a room at our house, i did it for my daughter, she hasnt seen him in 2yrs so she was excited.

Well that was my biggest mistake! he was here for 4 days and it was pure hell.
The first 2 days my daughter ignored both my fiance and I , no matter what we said, what her dad said went...we talked to him about that.

The next couple days, she couldnt be bothered with him. He was rude, always yelling...had to talk to him about that too. Needless to say, she started calling my fiance dad again and that pissed her father off.
Plus everything i did was wrong and he let me know it. It was annoying and definatley reminded me why i wasnt with him anymore.

I run a dayhome, and we planned a trip to west edmonton mall on the friday, so he could hang out with her, we told the dayhome parents, they were fine with it. But i had to be home at 3.
When we got there i told him we had to meet at 230 so we could make it back by 3.... he came at 310!!! i almost left him there...i would have if my daughter wasnt with him. And he saw nothing wrong with it.

Im so glad he went home!!! i couldnt stand another 2secs with him.

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April 20th, 2011, 12:05 PM
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Wow, sounds annoying! I'm glad you survived and hopefully you won't have to do that again anytime soon!
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April 20th, 2011, 12:16 PM
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I am glad you survived!!! Good thing is you won't have to deal with him for a while.
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April 20th, 2011, 03:41 PM
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Wow!! You are sooo much nicer than me! My husband's ex isn't allowed in my home. Ever.
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April 22nd, 2011, 09:54 AM
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Wow that was brave of you to let him stay in your house. I can't imagine! Sorry it didn't turn out so well. I'm glad you survived.

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