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April 16th, 2012, 09:23 AM
Rachel's Avatar Just Rachel
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Ya know, after the kids come home from their moms. W&C are jerks to Daniel. I don't know if they spend their weekend complaining about their little brother or if their mom fills their heads with crap about him being favored because he's mine and they aren't. I don't know, but Monday mornings after they come home from their moms are kind of a pain in the butt.

I was feeding Keelan this morning and Daniel needed help to pour his milk for his cereal. Both W&C ignored him and wouldn't help him and sat at the table with their breakfast making fun of him and telling him he didn't have time to eat now (he had 15 minutes). Why do they have to be jerks? It makes it really hard to be happy they are home!
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April 16th, 2012, 12:04 PM
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Ugh I hate that crap. I hope DSD doesn't start doing that. Sorry it's happening.

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April 16th, 2012, 01:00 PM
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Poor Daniel. I don't blame him!

I'm guessing it has to do with things said by their mother. We notice a big difference on the weekends that come after peaceful dealings with bm vs. weekends after she doesn't get her way.

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April 16th, 2012, 05:43 PM
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poor kiddo!
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April 16th, 2012, 05:47 PM
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Both Dani and Robert have major attitudes when we get them back. Both have the "I don't have to mind and can do whatever I want". Robert is completely babied at his mom's and allowed to do what he wants, play whatever games he wants (even rated M) etc, and Dani's dad has the Disney dad syndrome and won't tell his precious baby girl "no". It takes a day or so to get them back where we want them.

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April 23rd, 2012, 08:12 AM
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Same here! It feels like all the work we do here at home to get DSS on the right track, and become a more resposible, well-balanced kid, goes right out the window when he stays with BM and especially BMs family. Its the worst when a holiday comes up and he has more time to stay with those people.

And pmdc5286, we go through the same exact thing with my DSS with video games and movies, or just the wayBM and some of BMs family will talk in front of him. I honestly think they could care less because they don't have to deal with the consequences. They spend time with him once or twice a month, what do they care? They just want to be liked and fun, to me they're very childish and selfish for that.
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